I always thought that one of the pleasures of parenting was helping kids grow up to be themselves — to develop to be independent people with their own interests and goals, which might be very different than my own. We’re about giving opportunities, not dictating how they should live their lives, and one of the advantages of that is that all of my children were relatively stress-free (kids are never totally stress-free) and have never caused us much in the way of problems — and I think part of the reason is simply that we did not force them to go against their natures. There were lots of moments where I didn’t understand their choices, or even disagreed with them, but I just had to remember that my parents didn’t quite understand what I was doing with my life, either, but they let me be me and we all ended up happier for it.
Some people just can’t do that, though. Authoritarians are all about control, and it can lead to catastrophic evil against children.
Today, in the United States, there is a multibillion-dollar industry for residential treatment—one that sells an illusory promise to desperate parents: Your children’s addictions and mental health problems can be cured with a relatively quick (and usually expensive) fix. Yet the potential danger of abuse and neglect is a real threat for many of the 200,000 to 400,000 young people trapped in the nation’s poorly monitored secular and religious “group care” facilities, “troubled teen” residential schools and unlicensed treatment programs. Too often, critics say, these programs profit off the misery of emotionally troubled kids, substance abusers or just misbehaving youth, as well as their parents, who struggle to deal with kids they can’t control. “These are throwaway children,” says Jodi Hobbs, the president of the nonprofit group, Survivors of Institutional Abuse. “They are looked at as dollar signs, not as individuals.”
One of the most common types of private programs for errant youths are the virtually unregulated religious schools, many of which push fundamentalist Christian beliefs and employ violently harsh discipline against enrollees. Inspired in part by the programs of a fiery Baptist radio preacher, the late Lester Roloff, purveyors of these programs have been exposed for whippings and beatings and accused of rape. Perhaps the largest alliance of such ultraconservative churches is the far-flung Independent Fundamental Baptist organization with thousands of churches nationwide and numerous boarding schools that cite the biblical importance of breaking the will of the child. “If you’re not bruising your child,” a pastor declared in a 2007 sermon captured by ABC News’s 20/20, “you’re not spanking your child enough.”
That’s part of the story of Restoration Youth Academy, a Christian boot-camp in Alabama that promises to straighten out those darned rebellious teenagers with discipline…which means solitary confinement, beatings, bloody whippings, and sexual abuse. Many of these kids do have serious problems — drug abuse and mental health issues — but a) those are problems that can be worsened by a miserable home life, and b) even if the parents are otherwise blameless, shipping them off to a violent, brutalizing incarceration isn’t going to make them better. The article doesn’t say, but I wonder what proportion of these kids weren’t actually serious problem children, but were just people who had a different sexual orientation or dissented from the religious views of their parents, and were sent off to be punished and re-molded into a different view. Given that many of the institutions discussed in the story were intolerant fundamentalist Christian horror shows, I suspect a lot.
The story is also about intransigent Alabama politicians who refused to take action and closed a blind eye to the evidence of child abuse going on, probably in part because they had a shield of immunity, that they were preaching Christianity. Among the problem characters was the Alabama attorney general, Luther Strange, who was in the news lately for a promotion.
Kennedy is equally outraged that former state Attorney General Luther Strange has been appointed a U.S. senator to replace Jeff Sessions, the new U.S. attorney general. “He [Strange] threw the children under the bus so he could grease the way for his political ambitions,” Kennedy says. “All these politicians have lined their pockets with the blood of children.”
And all of those churches.
Siobhan says
If anyone’s feeling especially masochistic, I also signal boosted first hand accounts of some of the above mentioned camps:
https://proxy.freethought.online/atg/2016/09/13/the-realities-of-the-troubled-teen-industry/
Content warning for… like, everything.
Caine says
Most of them. Some of them, I suspect a lot, will be like I was, and be coming from a highly authoritarian and abusive situation, where the tiniest of actions will be seen as a rebellion which must be brutally put down.
unclefrogy says
and these same people the churches schools and their politician protectors attach Islam accusing Muslims of doing the very same thing and for being a religion of violence.
uncle frogy
anchor says
It isn’t surprising in this backward, upside down culture that the parents involved are not sent to a ‘corrections’ facility for parenting. I suppose they must be deemed completely guiltless.
Giliell, professional cynic -Ilk- says
Well, I’m pretty sure that all of the kids will be deeply troubled after the first round of treatment. Which means, of course, another round.
But I don’t have any sympathy for the parents who pay thousands of dollar. It’s their children who pay the price. Seriously, when will the USA finally accept that hitting children is wrong?
abbeycadabra says
The powers in ascendancy right now are in favor of pedophilia (as long as it’s committed by straight men).
If the USA won’t accept THAT is wrong, you have quite a wait ahead of you before the physical abuse stops, and I doubt there will ever be a consensus about the mental and social abuse.
wcorvi says
Oh, MAN, why didn’t _I_ think of that. A home for wayward, incorrigible young girls! Where we first try to teach them the other ways by a month of abstinence, then if that doesn’t work, a year of constant attempts to satiate them. With a line of willing dirty old men, fists full of dollars, lined up outside the door. And all this time, the parents paying a bundle for the treatment! … (for those who are worried, this is entirely tongue-in-cheek!)
tbtabby says
I was going to share an article from Cracked I once saw, but when I typed “troubled teen” into the search bar, I found there were FIVE such articles.
http://www.cracked.com/personal-experiences-1270-6-shocking-realities-secret-troubled-teen-industry.html
http://www.cracked.com/personal-experiences-1680-5-things-i-learned-escaping-troubled-teens-facility.html
http://www.cracked.com/podcast/the-horrifying-reality-teen-rehab-centers/
http://www.cracked.com/podcast/the-horrifying-reality-teen-rehab-centers/
http://www.cracked.com/personal-experiences-2188-my-parents-paid-rehab-camp-to-abuse-me-5-dark-realities.html
And as a palate cleanser, here’s one about someone who actually does help troubled teens.
http://www.cracked.com/personal-experiences-2154-i-teach-troubled-kids-in-group-home-6-realities.html
blf says
After the third explosion of the Yosemite supervolcano, several more invasions by Daleks and Cybermen, and the heat death of the universe.
Rich Woods says
@blf #9:
So that soon, eh?
My money is on humans finally ending child abuse only after the Big Rip.
rietpluim says
Sadistic Christianity is a pleonasm.
raven says
Quite a few kids have been killed in these religious facilities.
A lot of states have shut them down because of this.
I guess (no surprise), Alabama isn’t one of them.
The Mormons have their own horrible Gulag for their children.
No surprise again.
unclefrogy says
@12 I thought that all of mormanism was a gulag
uncle frogy