A Personal Stake in Transgender Politics


 Representative Ileana Ros-Lehtinen, at her office on Capitol Hill, has veered away from many Republicans on gay and transgender issues. Credit Chad Batka for The New York Times

Representative Ileana Ros-Lehtinen, at her office on Capitol Hill, has veered away from many Republicans on gay and transgender issues. Credit Chad Batka for The New York Times.

 Rodrigo Heng-Lehtinen, a transgender activist and Representative Ros-Lehtinen’s son, in New York. Credit Jake Naughton for The New York Times.

Rodrigo Heng-Lehtinen, a transgender activist and Representative Ros-Lehtinen’s son, in New York. Credit Jake Naughton for The New York Times.

This is a really nice story, about people who have their priorities in the right place, and are ruled by love, care, and empathy, not fear, bigotry, and hate.

MIAMI — The day Rodrigo Heng-Lehtinen told his prominent parents about his new gender identity, he did so in a letter that he left on their bed. Then he grabbed a packed bag and, unsure of whether he would be welcomed back, went to a friend’s house to see if his family would love him or leave him.

His shocked parents, Representative Ileana Ros-Lehtinen, a Miami Republican, and Dexter Lehtinen, who served as the top federal prosecutor here, did not hesitate. They grabbed the phone and told him that they loved him and that family trumped all, and asked him to come home. But as with many parents of transgender children, they were also overwhelmed by fear: The future they saw for their then 21-year-old, whom they had named Amanda, would be pockmarked with discrimination and bullying, if not outright violence.

It was this visceral reaction to want to protect her child that drove Ms. Ros-Lehtinen to break from her party’s skepticism or hostility on gay and transgender issues — a stance evident now in North Carolina’s battle over transgender bathroom visits — and become a conspicuous advocate in Congress and more recently in public service announcements. On Monday, Ms. Ros-Lehtinen, her husband and her son, now 30, will appear in the latest one for SAVE, a longtime South Florida gay rights group that hopes to engage the Latino community here.

The Full Story is Here, and it’s full of warm fuzzies.

Comments

  1. johnson catman says

    The story of Representative Ileana Ros-Lehtinen was included in the profiles that you featured a week or so ago. Stories like hers are ones that will help “normalize” the existence of transgender people to reasonable people who are not presently familiar with the issues. I respect her and wish her and her family the best!

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