Oh, look who’s going to get even more famous and popular


Someone has violated the Holy Law of the online harassers: Thou Shalt Not Dox, because that might expose an asshole to the consequences of their actions. Guess who?

That rascally Rebecca Watson.

So now gamergaters have decided to target her for destruction. You’d think they’d have learned by now that mobbing women on the internet a) makes them even more notorious, and b) confirms that gamergaters are a misogynistic hate group. It’s like a double strike directly against themselves, every time. Did they learn nothing from Anita and Zoe?

She’s going to be even more insufferable after this. But it’s going to be so entertaining watching gamergate continue to punch itself in the face.

Comments

  1. chigau (違う) says

    jeez
    RW is, like, so last week.
    I mean, like, we used to blame her for, like, everything.

  2. zenlike says

    That’s what’s called an own goal. I would feel sorry for Rebecca Watson for getting even more harassment, wouldn’t it be that she eats these gamergaters/MRA assholes for breakfast. I wouldn’t be able to keep doing what’s she doing, that’s for sure.

  3. says

    Can somebody please explain to me the R Watson hate? Seriously, she strikes me as an ordinary, likeable person, in no way disagreeable. I assume her penchant for dyeing her hair funny colors is a personal affectation and not some reason to vilify her.

    I just don’t get it.

  4. zenlike says

    Kamaka,

    She is an outspoken woman advocating women’s rights. That’s sadly more than enough to attract hordes of harassing man-children.

  5. Wowbagger, Heaper of Scorn says

    Can somebody please explain to me the R Watson hate?

    She refuses to tell petulant, entitled manbabies that they are the center of the universe.

  6. jambonpomplemouse says

    How dare you say we are a group dedicated to harassing women?! We’ll show you! We’ll get together and harass some women! Checkmate, ess jay double-yews.

  7. Nerd of Redhead, Dances OM Trolls says

    Can somebody please explain to me the R Watson hate?

    She said at a convention where misogynist fuckwit proposed sex to here in an elevator at 4:00 am, “guys, don’t do that”, impugning their imaginary ability to hit on any woman any where at any time.
    And she was right. The fuckwit should have kept quit in a civilized, non-misogynist world.

  8. says

    Excuse my naivity. She’s driving them wild with her not very controversial style? She strikes me as a nicey-nice, lets go have a beer and play pinball kind of person.

    This is all hard to believe.

  9. tyro says

    Why “insufferable”, is that a joke?

    I’ve always found her charming, funny and often insightful. She’s highly sufferable.

  10. says

    NoR

    No way, it’s all Elevatorgate? That’s it? A waterfall of hatred for years over THAT?

    Yikes. Back to lurking.

  11. Nerd of Redhead, Dances OM Trolls says

    No way, it’s all Elevatorgate? That’s it? A waterfall of hatred for years over THAT?

    Also, Wowbagger #5 nailed it since then.

    Yikes. Back to lurking.

    Please post. I suspect we are ready, and need all the help we can get. *sharpens titantium fang*

  12. says

    For those not following events on Twitter today, nobody has been doxxed. Gamer gaters are losing their shit right now over links to Gamer Gate FB groups. So… yea…

  13. weatherwax says

    #13 Kamaka: yes, believe it or not, she sill gets a lot of hate mail about elevatorgate. And not just from Gamers, but from general MRAs, and from skeptics on the other side of the feminist debate.

  14. speed0spank says

    Yeah, I’m confused about GG claiming they have been doxxed? I hadn’t seen anything like that. I know that the assholes did doxx srhbutts and pixelgoth on twitter. Assholes that they are.

  15. says

    Kamaka, even Dawkins is still throwing in sneering references to Elevatorgate, iirc. Don’t underestimate his and his fanboys’ ability to hold a grudge against any woman who dares fail to adore men.

  16. says

    Dawkins vs Watson

    It rather hurts that the scientist who enlightened me to the correct way of perceiving the nature of existence is such a small minded~entitled twit.

  17. F.O. says

    @Kamaka I wouldn’t call Dawkins small-minded, but he definitely is proof that 1) compartmentalization affects everyone and 2) religion is NOT the root of all evils.

  18. carlie says

    …So the problem is that there are FB gamergate groups that left their group public, and someone looked up “gamergate” on FB groups and found them, and some of those people had their RL names attached to themselves being in the gamergate FB group, and they’re claiming that’s doxxing? Hahahahahahaha NO.

  19. says

    I did not believe “Dear Muslima” was written by Dawkins, though I was there participating in the thread where it showed up. Jadehawk had to beat me with a dead carp to help me accept the reality that it was indeed a post by Dawkins.

  20. Thylacine says

    RW’s crime? She turned up to talk about atheism and skepticism , but she spoke while being in possession of a vagina
    instead of a penis.

  21. F.O. says

    @Kamaka: yeah, I still can’t wrap my head around how such a supporter of rational thought could come up with such a blatant rational fallacy.

  22. Hj Hornbeck says

    Kamaka @13:

    No way, it’s all Elevatorgate? That’s it? A waterfall of hatred for years over THAT?

    Yes, and no. From what I can gather, she’s a lot like the people harassing her: freewheeling and unabashed, someone who’ll never take shit from anyone and is happy to dish it back. She was a hard-core skeptic, one of the tribe, and while she was concerned with getting women more involved (hence SkepChick), Watson’s methods started off very much in line with the bro culture that dominated the community (hence Skep”Chick”).

    Somewhere along the way, though, Watson caught a case of the feminisms. Maybe this was due to conversations with her fellow “chicks,” or maybe due to a mix of objectification, tokenism, and blatant sexism directed her way that made her realize the skeptic community had a problem. Not many people remember the circumcision controversy, for instance, but it’s not hard to see the gears turning:

    I checked out this guy’s profile (warning, autoplay video) and he subscribes to a lot of science stuff, including good friends of mine like Captain Disillusion. I wanted to know what was happening in this guy’s head. Specifically, I wanted to know why someone would call me a bitch and then write something that I basically said in the video (but a bit more eloquently I hope): genital mutilation is wrong, whether on boys or girls. […]

    This is not a one-off example. I get these responses from men all the time. If you look at the comments on that video in particular, the top-rated comment calls me a “cunt.” That commenter, “eident9“, commented dozens of other times on my videos to alert viewers that I’m a “sexist twit” who only says “offensive” things so I can get more views and make more money.

    Because that’s the new meaning of the word “offensive”: a woman who calmly delivers the facts about topics that affect women like female genital mutilation, even when she states clearly that she opposes the practice of cutting boys’ foreskins for non-medical reasons. That’s what it means to be a woman on the Internet who dares to discuss the issues facing women.

    Watson began arguing within the tight-knit skeptic community over sexism, and her no-bullshit attitude was now burning bridges and creating grudges. She became a traitor, a turncoat who was inviting the Feminist Menace into the skeptic community after earning a reputation as “another one of the guys.”

    Elevatorgate was a match to that smoldering pile of tinder, and the resulting flare was visible even by people who didn’t know the backstory. It made a lot of people aware of the sexism problem, causing them to speak out about it and propose changes; but it also caused a lot of people to realize their community could be changed, and that if they didn’t become activists there was a real chance the skeptic movement would be overwhelmed by feminist woo. Both sides fed into one another, causing a positive feedback loop.

    And thus, the current situation.

  23. says

    I first saw the “don’t do that” video months after the shitstorm started. It was a couple more weeks before I realized there wasn’t another, harsher video to which the shitstorm would have been closer to a proportionate response, and that was actually it.

  24. says

    Kamaka: the funny thing is, Rebecca does, most of the time, appear to be a “let’s have a beer and play ping-pong” kind of woman. I think it’s only because of the unprecedented and unrelenting hate campaign based on “guys, don’t do that” (which quickly widened its focus from her and onto any woman online who doesn’t automatically sign on to some intrinsic male behavioural carte-blanche) that she decided to be far more vocal regarding feminism and SJ.

    So, basically, the manchild hate-machine created their own nemesis (which I guess is what you do when you’re part of a privileged majority and notice somebody questioning your privilege; Christian fundies paint themselves as persecuted in much the same way) – and they’ve never let her forget it.

  25. anteprepro says

    Fervent opposition seems to be the only actual shred of a moral standard that the Gamergaters actually have. Except for the fact that they seem to make more noise about it when abusers are outed than when people who are being harassed are doxxed as part of the harassment process….

  26. Radioactive Elephant says

    anteprepro:

    Fervent opposition seems to be the only actual shred of a moral standard that the Gamergaters actually have. Except for the fact that they seem to make more noise about it when abusers are outed than when people who are being harassed are doxxed as part of the harassment process….

    Well, it’s a matter of whether it affects them or not. When the people being harassed have their personal information distributed, the harassers aren’t affected (it actually makes it easier and more intimidating when harassing). And of course the ones distributing the information are individuals in no provable way associated with their group, so sure it’s bad but well, those victims shoulda just kept their mouths shut.

    But when somebody wants to expose the harassers, well, that puts them in danger of other people–maybe people they know–finding out they are reprehensible people. If there’s a risk people might find out how horrible they are… they might have to censor themselves! That is just unacceptable.

  27. says

    “Don’t do that” – “that” being “hit on me cold, after not even a cursory attempt to engage me in conversation, alone at 4am in an elevator, however nicely, just after I’ve said I’m retiring for the night, after I’ve stated publicly that I do not like being hit on; by the way I have a freakin boyfriend” – was immediately strung out into “Rebecca is a feminazi who thinks anyone who tries an innocent come-on is a rapist” and then, amazingly, escalated from there.

    Somehow, being advised not to try cold come-ons on women in small enclosed spaces an hour or two from dawn was the most heinous crime against manity (spelling intentional) imaginable. The shitstorm was already there, in hindsight; “don’t do that” was just the catalyst that brought it out into the open. Suddenly, everyone on FtB and/or who expressed support for Watson’s frankly very mild rebuke (it was calmly related and took up perhaps a minute of the video) was a man-hater or a mangina and former atheist/skeptic allies scrambled to demonise Watson and hurl abuse at anyone next to her. The Pit, AFAICT, was set up solely so people had a spot to share feminist slurs without getting banned by bloggers who didn’t take kindly to such bullshit.

    And now we have Deep Rifts between atheists who give a shit how women (and POC and LGBT people) are treated and atheists who apparently don’t. Which is fine by me; I’d like as big a rift as possible between me and people who think social justice is some kind of jackbooted political correctness gone mad.

  28. anteprepro says

    Kamaka: Basically. Or rather, it was a catalyst for the shitstorm in the atheist blogosphere.

    Forgive my vague, possibly poor summary of things as I understand them:

    Feminist and social justice issues have been becoming a larger issue across the internet around the same time in many of the nerdier and/or liberal-er segments. The debate in the atheist segment, especially as it pertains to Skepchick and FTB, went from the Elevatorgate manufactroversy to debates over skeptic conference harassment policies to debates about “outing” people who have been accused of rape. In addition to just basically arguments about feminism in general. Though Rebecca Watson has been hated as a Feminist Boogeyman ever since, things have moved on from Elevatorgate, technically, though some assholes on that side still do bring it up.

    Gamergate is relevant to these issues in the atheist interwebs, but arose due to an entirely different, yet similar, debate in the gaming community: Gaming is not an exclusively male hobby now but women are still being excluded because “gaming” is still treated as a boy’s club, and games are still not representing women in a half-way decent fashion and are blatantly disrespecting women in general in addition to snubbing them as customers and as fellow gamers. The parallel to Rebecca Watson in gaming would be Anita Sarkeesian, a feminist who dared to make a video series about examples of sexist tropes in video games. Men across the internet whined and shrieked about how unfair and inaccurate and out of context and under-researched it all was, and accused her of not being a Troo Gamer, and grumbled and moaned and gnashed teeth about her misusing money from Kickstarter. Even non-gamergaters just take it as common wisdom that Anita is some sort of radical feminist extremist and bleat out how they “don’t agree with her” at the slightest provocation, because the gaming community is just filled with thoughtless, apathetic little “moderates”.

    It is hard to say, really, what “starts” these shitstorms. The “start” always seems to just be an excuse. Elevatorgate was privileged assholes freaking out about not being to pick up chicks when they heard “Guys don’t do that”. Gamergate was privileged assholes freaking out about Ethics in Game Journalism when they heard a fradulent account of a woman having sex to get positive game reviews. Both were just excuses for sexists to defend sexism, and both were just springboards to get those types of assholes flying off to go harass women.

  29. anteprepro says

    Thunderf00l is a good case study. He is an example of the link that bridges Gamergate to the atheism debates, and of just how little it takes to make these kinds of assholes go absolutely apeshit:

    Elevatorgate led to discussion of instituting sexual harassment policies at conferences. To which ol’ thunder absolutely lost his shit. He ranted incoherently about how outrageous the idea was, adamantly defending his RIGHT to nibble on a woman’s leg without her expressly saying out loud that he his permission to do so. He lashed out at PZ and FTB and lost his writing slot here, and became the Slymepit Hero in the process.

    Fast forward, and he begins posting ranting video diatribes about Anita Sarkeesian’s videos. He was absolutely outraged, for instance, that Anita was so dishonest and incompetent as to not note that in Hitman, even though you can totally kill some strippers, you lose points for doing so. Of course, his rage at her imagined dishonesty somehow prevented him from noting that one minute later she mentions games that penalize killing women in this fashion and explains that she finds it petty and not an adequate justification for having blatant sexualized violence as part of the game, and doesn’t change the fact that those strippers are just sexualized props.

    So yes. “Get clear permission before you nibble on someone’s legs” and “Many video games have sexist portrayals of women” were enough to break the Foot of Thunder. Which you would think would be ridiculous and cartoonish enough that even the most casual of observers would chuckle or at least back away slowly. And yet he has supporters.

  30. Radioactive Elephant says

    Gamergate was privileged assholes freaking out about Ethics in Game Journalism when they heard a fradulent account of a woman having sex to get positive game reviews.

    Don’t forget that the Prophet Leigh spread forth the message that all gamers are dead. Which in no uncertain terms means that anybody living who considers herself or himself a gamer is wrong. They did not die in the Great Gaming Gapture, therefore are False Gamers of the same unholy ilk as the Defiler, Sarkeesian. For that blasphemous insult she must pay. PAY!! As do all SJWs who claim the Gamer Gates of Heaven are closed.
    (I’m a bit burned out over gamergate… sorry)

  31. some bastard on the internet says

    Radioactive Elephant @39

    He was absolutely outraged, for instance, that Anita was so dishonest and incompetent as to not note that in Hitman, even though you can totally kill some strippers, you lose points for doing so. Of course, his rage at her imagined dishonesty somehow prevented him from noting that one minute later she mentions games that penalize killing women in this fashion and explains that she finds it petty and not an adequate justification for having blatant sexualized violence as part of the game, and doesn’t change the fact that those strippers are just sexualized props.

    It also demonstrates his incredible dishonesty, as I doubt that someone who knows that you lose points for taking down civilians in Hitman somehow doesn’t know that those points can be completely recovered by hiding the body.

    So, if you take down those strippers, that’s technically naughty and you will be chastised for it. But, if you promptly stuff them into boxes, then all is forgiven.

    And I still get asked why I never finished that game.

  32. says

    @38 anteprepro, thanks for covering the whole “harassment policy at conferences” angle. Thunderfap’s incandescent outrage at atheist conferences adopting conference codes of conduct that are nigh-ubiquitous among other groups and industries, and his disingenuous depiction of them as akin to obtaining written permission in triplicate to have a little flirt with someone, will live in infamy. When he joined FtB I was still a fan of his and I recall commenting to the effect that he was kinda missing the point and making a huge deal out of nothing (I held back my opinion of his shitty adolescent writing). Of course, since then I’ve realised that missing the fucking point and making a big fucking fuss is his entire M.O.

    @42, some bastard:

    And I still get asked why I never finished [Hitman].

    I didn’t finish the first Hitman out of sheer fucking boredom. Maybe they threw in the optional stripper-killing in an attempt to “get edgy” and attract new players.

  33. robertwilson says

    For someone who had these two interests simultaneously but never associated them (atheism and gaming) It’s been a little surreal to watch both of these communities freak out over the most basic feminism. It’s sad though too, cause it’s easy to project and imagine that you’re rational (or sensible or any quality you want to insert), therefore others who share your interests will be too when it comes to the issues that you identify as interesting and important to you.

    Then you discover that the communities you freely associate with can be just as much of a mixed bag as the ones you grew up in and you still have sorting out to do. I’m repeating myself (from another random comment on FtB) but mostly just felt that surreal feeling looking back on all this and a desire to express it again.

    It’s been good to see big names in both areas also speak up against harassment and in favor of involving more women and minorities, but, especially in the gaming example, it needs to be a lot stronger I think. The most infuriating aspect right now is that too many big names are still too neutral or unwilling to make stronger statements. On the other hand I’ve found a lot of people to respect and admire among those who do speak up very clearly.

  34. says

    The funniest thing is that these people don’t know that what they’re calling “doxxing” is Facebooks BUSINESS MODEL.

    Facebook exists to catalog your interests, likes, relatives, schools, jobs, friends, friends-friends, friends-friends-friends, website visits, name, age. gender, pet preference, address, location, phone number, shopping habits, facial structure, and everything else – and then sell it.

    If they are in these groups, then their employers ALREADY KNOW, if they are at all interested in that knowledge in the first place.

    It’s like complaining that someone told Time-Warner that you have cable and subscribe to sports illustrated.

  35. says

    Wait, Rebecca is a video games journalist now?
    Because it’s all about Ethics in Games Journalism, right?
    Reminds me of a joke I read on twitter this week:
    A GamerGater, a Nazi and a Paedophile walk into a bar. Says the GamerGater: “Don’t worry, I’m not with them, I just pay for their drinks.”

    +++
    anteprepro

    Thunderf00l is a good case study. He is an example of the link that bridges Gamergate to the atheism debates,

    I’d rather see TF as another guy whose atheist misogyny ship was losing its rats and who therefore jumped onto the train (remember he makes several K from his videos. GG’s are a huge market). Because I don’t remember him talking about videogames before…

  36. Radioactive Elephant says

    Giliell #47:

    I’d rather see TF as another guy whose atheist misogyny ship was losing its rats and who therefore jumped onto the train (remember he makes several K from his videos. GG’s are a huge market). Because I don’t remember him talking about videogames before…

    He was making videos about Anita Sarkeesian’s videos long before Gamergate. So I think he liked the attention he got from the atheist misogyny and decided to branch out towards video game misogyny. But he’s been fighting feminists trying to “impose our ideals on video games” for a while. It’s interesting how much overlap there is really. It was jarring to see tangents about the issues in the atheist community during Gamergate conversations in a video game forum I frequent.

  37. zmidponk says

    Jafafa Hots #46:

    The funniest thing is that these people don’t know that what they’re calling “doxxing” is Facebooks BUSINESS MODEL.
    Facebook exists to catalog your interests, likes, relatives, schools, jobs, friends, friends-friends, friends-friends-friends, website visits, name, age. gender, pet preference, address, location, phone number, shopping habits, facial structure, and everything else – and then sell it.
    If they are in these groups, then their employers ALREADY KNOW, if they are at all interested in that knowledge in the first place.
    It’s like complaining that someone told Time-Warner that you have cable and subscribe to sports illustrated.

    QFT

    I’ve never understood why Facebook is so popular. The first time I heard of it, I set up an account, poked around for a few minutes, very quickly came to the conclusion that it used the idea of making ‘friends’ online to gather details about you and your interests and using them to make money, and decided I didn’t want to be a part of that. As such, the number of times I have logged into my Facebook account is precisely one.

  38. says

    Guys, can we all get into the habit of calling Thunderface by his real name of Phil Mason. The nom de plume is giving him a barrier between the person he is and the YouTube personality he puts forward.

    I want the IRL him to be as tied to his words as possible.

  39. says

    Thanks All, for your thoughtful responses to my queries. I don’t get it at all, but I get it.

    Now, back to lurking.

  40. says

    A GamerGater, a Nazi and a Paedophile walk into a bar. Says the GamerGater: “Don’t worry, I’m not with them, I just pay for their drinks.”

    I laughed out loud; that was great!!

  41. says

    There are also, of course, huge differences between what GGs and MRAs expect from doxxing and what women, feminists and assorted minorities expect from doxxing:
    They fear consequences of their actions.
    Their probem is that their GF/wife might take a dim view on them fantasizing about raping and murdering women. They fear that their boss might fire them for finding out that they made threats on company time.
    Their problem is not that now a bunch of people that possibly contain a “lone wolf superhero in their own mind” know their name and address and they have to leave their home to get to a safe place.
    Of course, the fault is NEVER with them and their actions, nor is their boss an asshole who thinks they can control what their employees think*. the fault lies with the person who complains.

    *Mind you, there are legitimate issues with superiors punishing employees for things they do in private. But making graphic threats are on a different page and so is maliciously diagnosing sbdy with an STI over teh internet.

  42. says

    Hj Hornbeck @#29, you seem to have a weird version of events.

    Watson’s methods started off very much in line with the bro culture that dominated the community (hence Skep”Chick”)

    As someone who has been reading Skepchick since 2007 … no. This is not actually true.

    Somewhere along the way, though, Watson caught a case of the feminisms.

    Uh, no. She’s always been a feminist, and Skepchick was always a feminist site/blog.

    Watson began arguing within the tight-knit skeptic community over sexism,

    That seems a very edited version of events. Watson HAS ALWAYS spoken out against sexism. She wasn’t “arguing within” — she was merely speaking out against sexism.

    Your entire timeline is weirdly skewed and makes Watson seem like someone she is not.

  43. One Day Soon I Shall Invent A Funny Login says

    RW was one of the first women to gain a sufficient following to have crossed the Koolaid point. Link is to a well-known essay that defines that “point” and details all the techniques and tropes used against RW and any other woman fortunate enough to gain an audience on the internet.

    Now — can somebody explain to me what the two tweets in the OP are supposed to represent? They look innocuous to me, how do they constitute “doxxing” (outing of the anonymous)?

  44. Nerd of Redhead, Dances OM Trolls says

    They look innocuous to me, how do they constitute “doxxing” (outing of the anonymous)?

    Nothing was doxxed in the tweets. But RW did say she had no problem doxxing harassers in the second. She didn’t state explicitly she would, but the option is there.

  45. Hj Hornbeck says

    marilove @55:

    Your entire timeline is weirdly skewed and makes Watson seem like someone she is not.

    I’m not that surprised, it was re-constructed from tales of her early years in the skeptic movement told to me by other people, not all of them friendly to her.

    She’s always been a feminist, and Skepchick was always a feminist site/blog.

    OK, maybe it’s less that Watson “got” feminism than her feminism evolved over the years.

    The next issue of Skepchick will premier Wednesday, February 15. It’s packed pretty solid with thought-provoking essays on religion and philosophy and how they relate to skepticism. I’ll be adding nothing to the level of discourse by providing an insider’s overview of this year’s The Amaz!ng Meeting 4, held in Las Vegas and sponsored by the James Randi Educational Foundation. I’m also considering putting a racy image on the front page. Why? Because it looks good. Why else? Because I’m curious to see how people will respond. We started this organization by publishing a calendar of mostly nude women, so in a future issue, I think we should all sit down and talk about sex, exploitation of women, and skepticism. Doesn’t that sound fun?

    It’s easy to forget SkepChick started as a pin-up calendar, but that’s actually a critical point.

    The Skepchick Calendar started as a fantasy on a forum full of skeptical men (the JREF forum): “Wouldn’t it be hotttt if all the women on the forum made a pin-up calendar?” And then it became a joke on a forum full of skeptical women (shout out to Mu.Nu!): “Wouldn’t it be funny if we made a pin-up calendar where all the pictures relate to skepticism?” And then it became a hobby: “Wouldn’t it be fun if we actually made the calendar, sold a few to friends, and used the money to send disadvantaged women to the The Amazing Meeting in Las Vegas?” […]

    The following year, everyone wanted more. This time, I wanted a male calendar as well, to satisfy the dude-loving buyers and because it just seemed nice and egalitarian. I drafted more people and did it again. And then again the following year. And then I stopped. Why? For some of the same reasons that I’m turned off by the current crop of calendars:

    1. Regardless of the intent behind the calendars, regardless of how much fun we had making them, regardless of how empowering we found them, regardless of the racial and age diversity we showcased, and regardless of the fact that they were run by a woman and benefited women, pin-up calendars added to an existing environment in which women were seen first as sexual objects and maybe if they’re lucky they’d later be seen as human beings with thoughts and desires of their own. Back in 2005, I thought skeptics weren’t affected by the patriarchy and that misogyny was something left to the religious. In a community like that, a pin-up calendar of women would be absolutely fine. I learned that a community like that does not exist and it was naive of me to assume otherwise.

  46. ck, the Irate Lump says

    Giliell, professional cynic -Ilk- wrote:

    “A GamerGater, a Nazi and a Paedophile walk into a bar. Says the GamerGater: “Don’t worry, I’m not with them, I just pay for their drinks.”

    Sadly, this joke often works like this, too, due to kook magnetism: “A GamerGater, a Nazi and a Paedophile walk into a bar. He orders a drink.”

  47. pacal says

    The main thing Elevatorgate proved was that Rebecca Watson was right. Not so strangely the MRA people and others who attacked her just don’t get this.

  48. says

    Hj Hornbeck, I suggest you don’t relay third-hand information to others to try to explain a situation you clearly don’t understand. You also don’t understand the calendar. I’ve no desire to do any searching to find anything else about that, but … yeah, you have a shoddy view about Skepchick and Rebecca in general. It’s almost like your view of her is coming from people who dislike her.

    Just … if you don’t fully understand a situation yourself, don’t try to explain it as if you do. SEVERAL people have shared a much clearer timeline of what happened, that’s far more detailed and far more accurate than your admitted third-hand, rumor-mill information. You’re not helping.

  49. says

    (That said, she HAS evolved, but that doesn’t really mean much. She wasn’t on the radar until she spoke out against sexism, although she has been a long-time feminist. Your information is still weird and paints a weird picture about the situation and Rebecca in general and I don’t much like it.)

  50. says

    It’s easy to forget SkepChick started as a pin-up calendar, but that’s actually a critical point.

    Why? Is a bunch of people creating a pin-up calendar using pictures of themselves and other volunteers supposed to be anti-feminist, or something?

    Skepchick has always (to my knowledge) been quite sex positive. Sex positivity and feminism are not at odds.

  51. David Marjanović says

    I assume her penchant for dyeing her hair funny colors is a personal affectation and not some reason to vilify her.

    Feminist hair. They call it feminist hair.

  52. Hj Hornbeck says

    marilove @61:

    Just … if you don’t fully understand a situation yourself, don’t try to explain it as if you do. SEVERAL people have shared a much clearer timeline of what happened, that’s far more detailed and far more accurate than your admitted third-hand, rumor-mill information. You’re not helping.

    Fair enough. While I had no idea you started hanging around SkepChick in 2007, I’ve seen you as a regular over there for years. You know your stuff.

    Gretchen @63:

    Is a bunch of people creating a pin-up calendar using pictures of themselves and other volunteers supposed to be anti-feminist, or something?

    Oh no no no no, at least not intentionally. I’m taking Watson’s history straight-up: she and other women on the JREF forum spotted the idea for a pin-up calendar and decided to turn it into a bit of ironic sexism. Skeptics are totally post-sexism, they’re waaay too smart to buy into the sexist crap in most of society. So why not mock the sexism found elsewhere by parodying it, with a diverse and smart set of women in sexy pin-ups? It fit perfectly with her thinking at the time:

    I am a skepchick. That is to say, a skeptic chick. The word “chick” is considered demeaning by some people, but I’m young enough that it is nothing to me but a favorable replacement for “lady” or the dreadful “gal.” So I embraced the term “skepchick” from the moment I was so labeled by a group of fellow female critical thinkers on an online forum. […]

    The most common complaint was that we were using our bodies to make money. It didn’t occur to these people that we were also using our brains, our passion, and our creativity, all of which made our physical appearance almost incidental.

    Problem is, ironic sexism is still sexism. It’s harmless if you’re in on the joke, but if you’re not then it just winds up reinforcing the sexist views that people hold. That’s precisely what happened, and it really came back to bite Watson.

    … I realized was that the women in the calendars were not being seen in the same way as the men in the calendars. The women were objectified on a level unmatched by those viewing and commenting on the men. This was something difficult for me to objectively evaluate at the time and was just a hunch based on my casual observations, but that hunch was confirmed last year [2011] when I had shitlord after shitlord emailing me to tell me that I have no right to complain about being groped or propositioned at conferences because I posed in a calendar for skeptics (see my filthy slut photo as the featured image on this post). If Phil Plait ever complains about a woman grabbing his crotch at a conference, I’m confident that no one will forward him his entry in the 2007 “Skepdude” Calendar and tell him to stop being such a whore if he doesn’t want that kind of attention.

    At my least charitable, I’d say Watson was all for feminism and equality, and was even actively trying to encourage it within the skeptic community, but she hadn’t done her homework and thought things through. In support of marilove, she does display some knowledge of feminist matters (“I think we should all sit down and talk about sex, exploitation of women, and skepticism.”), but it’s tough to call even that least charitable view “anti-feminist.” “Naive” is a better way to put it, and ignorance only becomes a crime if repeated.

    But I didn’t mean the calendars were critical to show an anti-feminist slant, though. They’re critical as setup for what was to come: they helped make Watson a big name in the skeptic movement, kicked off her skeptic scholarships for women, gave her money to use as leverage to combat sexism, and gave her connections to the organizers of the biggest, bro-iest convention in all of skepticism. Those calendars made her dangerous to the anti-feminist part of skepticism, and worst of all they helped make her dangerous.

    That stung. And it helps explain the animosity she faced in the JREF forums, too, well before any elevators got involved.

  53. ck, the Irate Lump says

    Someone has violated the Holy Law of the online harassers: Thou Shalt Not Dox

    That isn’t the Holy Law. The Law is, Others Shalt Not Dox Us

  54. speed0spank says

    Thank you Ryan Cunningham. I actually had heard about that but just never saw the tweet in question.
    I’m so irritated by GG and wish it’d blow over already. Its really similar to the split in atheism to me. You have all these people suddenly planting their flag firmly in the “total piece of shit” territory. Then you have people who try and play moderate but end up mostly giving lip service to the assholes while throwing the heavy criticism at the evil SJW menace. People like Total Biscuit (a game reviewer on youtube) and David Pakman (has a progressive politics show) have decided to play asshole moderate in this whole thing and I’m not fucking buying it. If you can look at a page where most the GGers hang out (KotakuinAction on reddit) and see maybe one story about what they think “ethics” entails, and the rest about harassment and bullshit, and think that is something you gotta be a part of – you do not deserve my attention or my money. You can fuck right off.

  55. says

    Jafafa Hots @46

    The funniest thing is that these people don’t know that what they’re calling “doxxing” is Facebooks BUSINESS MODEL.

    Fucking hell, yeah. That’s why I closed my account with them about a week or two after opening it. They emailed my boss, who uses NO social media, and who I’d never mentioned (or my workplace, or any personal details) when setting the damned account up. Totally made my skin crawl that they were practically stalking us.

  56. speed0spank says

    Yeah, he did. He seems to be kind of in the process of realizing that GG is a bunch of misogynist assholes who don’t know what ethics are. I have a feeling he will soon disavow GG and say it has been taken over by trolls or something, as if it hasn’t been that way since the start.
    If only there were somewhere one could place bets on such matters.

  57. robertwilson says

    Total Biscuit is a figure who likes to sound rational and even-handed and thinks he’s better than most at it. As such he put himself squarely in the “there are two sides to this” camp and dug his heels in when people pointed out the two sides aren’t the same. I get the impression he’s very much a hyper-skeptic type, he’s certainly pompous and willing to tell everyone else how things actually are rather than listen to people’s experience. Part of that (reportedly) probably comes from his perception that he’s just as (if not more) oppressed as women and other minorities because he’s British.

    He also went through a fight with cancer recently which seemed to mellow him out. However it supposedly gave some people some bad ideas of how to attack him, contributing to his perception that both sides of the gamergate issue are the same.

  58. says

    Part of that (reportedly) probably comes from his perception that he’s just as (if not more) oppressed as women and other minorities because he’s British.

    Where on earth* are you an oppressed minority for being fucking British? That’s probably the most prestigious nationality one can have, a Teflon one where all the atrocities of past, present and future just wash off and leave you with the default “educated person who seriously knows culture”.

    *apart from the inside of the person’s head, obviously

  59. opposablethumbs says

    Ah but Giliell, we’re sooooooo oppressed ’cause we used to have an empire on wot the sun never set an’ all that, and now we don’t got one any more (except for a paltry few Brits who are multi-millionaires) and besides I don’t understand wot they are talking about in the shop down the road* they is all furrin’ an’ talking in furrin’ an’ my locality is no longer 99% white!!!!!!!! Woe, woe is us the map is not all covered in pink bits any more.
    Do many Dutch and Portuguese and Spanish people sing this song, I wonder? I’m sure some do, I just wonder how common it is.

    * (Turkish, as it ‘appens)

  60. opposablethumbs says

    apologies for OT digression: Daz, do you just keep track of individual “What If”s that you particularly want to be able to find again, or is there any way of searching them? (I remember there’s an archive for the titles of the regular strip, but there isn’t one for the What Ifs???)

    Nice one, btw! :-)

  61. nich says

    So I think he liked the attention he got from the atheist misogyny and decided to branch out towards video game misogyny.

    I find it sadly hilarious that there are varieties of misogyny. I wonder if good ol’ fashioned religion misogynists consider video game misogyny a “fad misogyny”:

    “Pshaw! Darn New Age Misogynists and their videogames! None of this yootoob and forechin for me! When I was a young’un you had to drive to church t’other side of the county in the snow on a Sunday ta get yer misogyny…AND THAT’S THE WAY WE LIKED IT!!!”

  62. says

    opposablethumbs

    besides I don’t understand wot they are talking about in the shop down the road* they is all furrin’ an’ talking in furrin’ an’ my locality is no longer 99% white!

    It’s always telling when you hear them voicing fears of one day being in the minority while at the same time insisting that everybody s really equal right now.
    *Russian

  63. procrastinatorordinaire says

    while at the same time insisting that everybody s really equal right now.

    You must be thinking about a different country to the UK. Nobody here is under the illusion that this is an egalitarian society.

  64. odin says

    Listening to leading Tories talking, they seem to be under the impression that everyone’s a multimillionaire.

    Then again, I shouldn’t be saying much, the government here is if anything worse.

  65. says

    opposablethumbs and Giliell:

    besides I don’t understand wot they are talking about in the shop down the road* they is all furrin’ an’ talking in furrin’ an’ my locality is no longer 99% white!

    It’s always telling when you hear them voicing fears of one day being in the minority while at the same time insisting that everybody s really equal right now.
    *Russian

    Actually, it’s a Polish store with Lithuanian ownership and Russian/Polish/Ukrainian/Lithuanian-speaking personnel of three or four nationalities. But then this one I’m thinking of is on Moore St. here in Dublin and you can get everything on Moore St. :^)

  66. Crimson Clupeidae says

    I could totally take RW in a game of ping pong.

    Loser buys the beer.

    Wait, what was this about again?

  67. EnlightenmentLiberal says

    She said at a convention where misogynist fuckwit proposed sex to here in an elevator at 4:00 am, “guys, don’t do that”,

    IIRC, RW made of point of not describing the guy in the elevator with such strong words. Whereas, some of the people who followed up on that and overreacted – those are the misogynist fuckwits.

  68. Nerd of Redhead, Dances OM Trolls says

    IIRC, RW made of point of not describing the guy in the elevator with such strong words.

    But Elevator Guy was a misogynist fuckwit to even make the proposal in the first place, even if RW didn’t use the term. You know that. What is your problem?

  69. Grewgills says

    @87
    If I’m reading @86 correctly the problem they have is that despite RW putting it in the politest possible terms the misogynist fuckwits overreacted anyway, thus further emphasizing their misogynist fuckwittery.

  70. Nerd of Redhead, Dances OM Trolls says

    If I’m reading @86 correctly the problem they have is that despite RW putting it in the politest possible terms the misogynist fuckwits overreacted anyway, thus further emphasizing their misogynist fuckwittery.

    Whereas I read where the misogyny of elevator guy was diminished/dismissed for some reason, compared to the later responders. There is no difference.

  71. Silentbob says

    @ 55 marilove

    Hj Hornbeck @#29, you seem to have a weird version of events… She’s always been a feminist, and Skepchick was always a feminist site/blog… Watson HAS ALWAYS spoken out against sexism.

    You are wrong, and Hj Hornbeck’s speculation (@29) was essentially correct. You can read an account in Rebecca’s own words here:

    When I started this site [Skepchick], I didn’t call myself a feminist. I had a hazy idea that feminism was a good thing, but it was something that other people worried about, not me. I was living in a time and culture that had transcended the need for feminism, because in my world we were all rational atheists who had thrown off our religious indoctrination so that I could freely make rape jokes without fear of hurting someone who had been raped…

    [She goes on to explain a growing awareness of objectification and harrasment.]

    … I learned more about modern feminism and about how their goals so clearly overlapped those of the humanists and skeptics and secularists, and I wrote and spoke more about the issues within that overlap because so few other skeptics were doing it.

    So here we are today. I am a feminist, because skeptics and atheists made me one.

  72. EnlightenmentLiberal says

    I still don’t understand how “misogynistic fuckwit” is accurate to describe the guy in the elevator. Clueless and inconsiderate are more reasonable. I also thought this was RW’s clear position. I missed a memo.

  73. says

    EL @86: you’re right about RW’s position. She never accused the elevator-guy of anything other than ill-timed and inappropriate behavior that she found creepy (for good reason). All she said was “guys, don’t do that,” as in, don’t try to chat up women you don’t already know in hotel elevators at 4am because that’s not a place where a woman would feel comfortable talking to guys she knows nothing about.