You will all be distraught to learn that, once again, the godless atheists have fired off more hate speech at Christmas. Atheist households all around the world will be playing this spittle-flecked rant to their children for the next month or so.
Also, Australian Christmas just inverts everything that is right and good. It’s positively hellish.
(Episode CCLXXVI: An animal with style.)
(via Token Skeptic).
Caine, Fleur du Mal says
Chigau:
Otherwise known as ableist insults. One of the stupider trolls from TR in the Fair weather thread was a good example, using aspie and retarded as insults.
That said, I don’t know that I’d put lame in that category.
StarStuff! Because f**k you, that's why says
Oh. I get the “crazy” one. But I’ve never actually heard anyone use the term “lame” to describe a person with health issues, but I suppose that’s one of its (more dated) meanings.
Well, I can now honestly say that I’ve thought about something in a different way today.
happiestsadist says
My favourite poem, which I have painted on a canvas, thanks to my ridiculously talented girlfriend:
A fallen blossom
returning to the branch?
It was a butterfly.
-Moritake
Nimravid says
Yeah, she was a “pick-me-up after JT’s troubles” so it was a deflection from the topic. But the thread’s managing to stay mostly on target, with the occasional tangent to hula hoop friction.
Part-Time Insomniac, Zombie Porcupine Nox Arcana Fan says
I just found an “I Love Soup” T-shirt online. And I want one. Because I am a sucker for soup year-round.
I like it so much, I think I’ll finish off the last of the pastina in some broth. Even though it’s creeping on to 10 pm.
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Now that my Fuze is loaded up with all the music I enjoy, the morning commute and afternoon break will be very pleasant. Although I think some stuff loaded twice…or else I missed a few folders I didn’t want. Oh well.
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I’ll be honest, I used to joke around about people being mentally ill as a way of illustrating just how silly they were. Now that I’ve seen just how much the mentally ill suffer, and . . . well, how in some cases it can lead to people doing awful things, it’s not a laughing matter anymore. That far too many wind up going off their meds just because some guy with a pulpit and far too much lung capacity for shrieking about hellfire says demons = mental illness, only serves to make me even more afraid for such people.
So can I please smash the pulpit of the next preacher who declares that demons cause mental problems? Preferably following up the destruction with a flamethrower? PLEASE? They’re not helping anyone get better, unless you count scaring people away from Fundie Christianity as such.
cicely, unheeded prophetess of the Equine Apocalypse says
I like haiku-ing!
I don’t claim to do it well…
Just persistently.
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Chocolate-mint Girl Scout cookies are awesome frozen!
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Nimvarid, welcome in.
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Mint truffle Kisses™
Are sufficient excuse for
The Christmas season.
:)
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Carlie says
We have enough to expand
to a full renga at TET
Nimravid says
A renga? But-
It needs a moon verse.
You’re all very welcoming
For godless heathens
Carlie says
I suppose it should also
mention the cherry blossoms.
Tethys says
Home from Thanksgiving.
My family is too loud
but I still love them.
Check the bunny thread
What part of “I change my mind”
is causing distress?
Nicoleandmaggie
ignore the question, scream INTENT!
Replies seem pointless.
myeck waters says
Argh. Weirdest thanksgiving ever. Death. More death. Then canine death, and more human death.
Went back to my wife’s home town to spend the holiday with her extended family as per usual. Before we even packed, her cousin died. When we arrived at her parents’ house we were told her father’s cousin had also died. Then her sister had to put her dog down. Finally, her niece plus niece’s spouse and stepson had to leave the big turkey day dinner to rush to the hospital, where spouse’s mom died a few hours later.
Plus, there was an unexpected total lack of internet access. No internet? I thought this was America. Couldn’t even get a usable cell phone signal. Harrumph.
chigau (本当) says
I hafta watch QI.
I’ll be back.
—-
Isn’t lame a lot like cripple?
ahs ॐ says
theophontes,
I suspect you read “my personal interests” as being approximately limited to my material wealth and lack of suffering, give or take a few other obvious personal interests.
That’s an obvious reading, so I should clarify: I mean those things and significantly more.
I mean, at the most doubtful of times, to at least see myself as someone who believes in fairness and acts upon this belief. Or as Richard Carrier puts it, «one of the best and most important reasons Secular Humanism offers to be moral is that we are indeed, in [J.P.] Moreland’s own words, “image bearers.” But in humanism, the image we are bearing is not that of some God, whose precise image is unascertainable with any confidence, but of our own ideals of what a good human being is and can be.»
I mean the self-righteousness warmth of knowing that in some small part due to my actions, fewer people will suffer pain and injustice. (That reminds me, I need to pen another essay on the moral imperative of self-righteousness, better than Joey Kurtzman and Peter Singer have done.)
I mean, at the best of times, the power to impose my values upon the world, and recreate humanity in the image of strange gods.
+++++
Pitching in money for a campaign, or spending an evening arguing with someone who denigrates atheists, are generally not efficient ways to ensure that I will be treated fairly. I do these things because they are strokes of my moral aesthetic.
I distinguish calls for unity from calls for help. If someone says “I need atheists to help me,” that may be entirely reasonable; there may be reason to hope that atheists will be the ones who best understand and care about a particular issue.
But I don’t see any way in which calls for atheist or humanist unity could motivate me any further. Such calls imply that I don’t already know my values, that I don’t understand who I am and why I do what I do. If I am not attracted by the substantive means of a particular working group, then I will not be moved by an assertion that we share the same ends. The means are the ends.
Walton says
Bleh. Just flew back from England to the US. (I was home for less than a week so that I could go to my Oxford graduation ceremony. Yes, a year-and-a-half after I finished the actual degree.)
My flight was delayed by a couple of hours, but I didn’t care too much, since I had a shiny new copy of Snuff to read (a gift from my parents).
In other news, the CBP officer at the border was rude and obnoxious. Not that that’s surprising. (I doubt border security enforcement is a line of work that attracts sunny, sweet-natured and well-adjusted people.)
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KG, sorry to hear about the health scare, and glad you’re ok.
Caine, Fleur du Mal says
Chigau:
It used to be, but I’d say its usage in that regard is close to obsolete. Unless one is talking about horses, at any rate.
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
100%-Sonic Youth
Tunic (Song For Karen)-Sonic Youth
Within You Without You-Sonic Youth
ahs ॐ says
Aug. 26, 2011: Colts are lost cause if Manning goes lame
“While earthquakes, hurricanes and wildfires hit different areas of the country, another type of potential disaster is bearing down on Indianapolis. Peyton Manning has a neck injury that might doom the Colts’ season before it begins.
Opinions vary on whether Manning will start the opener in two weeks, but what’s not up for debate is his value. The Colts are a lost cause without him.”
Alethea H. Claw says
Hi Nimravid, very pleased to see you here!
Pelamun, does that “pusillanimous” excuse even hold water? It seems rather dubious to me. The idea of the “pussycat” as soft and easy to push around makes more sense.
Ableism seems more tricky than sexism; and not only because some of us have less practice at checking for it. It’s quite simple to claim that being a woman, or gay, or black etc is not actually a bad thing. But by contrast, a disability *is* usually a bad thing. (Setting some kinds of neurodiversity aside.) Yes, obviously the actual person with the disability is not at fault – blaming the person, or equating the person with their disability are clearly wrong.
But calling something else by the name of a disability? Is it really wrong to speak of “a lame excuse”? I’m not so sure there. You don’t want a disability to happen to you or your loved ones. I don’t want my friend to have to use a wheelchair. It’s bad. I don’t want saccharine christian glurge telling me that it will make him a better person, or that being lame is good for a life lesson or some such shit. Lame is bad, and sometimes life sucks.
Anyway, instead of crazy, how about nutty? Which lets you use the recently coined phrase “as nutty as squirrelshit”.
StarStuff! Because f**k you, that's why says
pteryxx, are you here? I’ve just seen a pretty strange search term in my blog stats that relates to you.
People search the weirdest things sometimes.
Pteryxx says
StarStuff, if that was “pteryxx gravatar” then it was me. I just noticed that all the gravatars on FTB don’t link back to our gravatar pages anymore, at least not in Firefox+Noscript mode; so I was dinking around trying to figure why that might be and if gravatars still linked back on other sites, or if I could get to it some other way. On mine, I keep a bigger image of the drawing I made my gravatar after, and depending on how the conversations went I might need to refer back to it…
Then I remembered I’m supposed to be in AFK mode to concentrate on homework. <_< Go go Team ADD!
rorschach says
Dick Gross can be a bit erratic, but I think this article is rather on the spot : Thanksgiving for God
chigau (本当) says
I think I’ve been using “lame” in a manner unique to me.
The same was true of “cunt” but I’ve dropped it anyway.
StarStuff! Because f**k you, that's why says
@ Pteryxx
Ok, that makes sense now. I get some pretty strange things on that part of my stats page, so I just wanted to check with you about it.
Pteryxx says
StarStuff, no problemo… in fact, I appreciate that you took the time to ask. This just pointed up to me how useful it could be to have a FRIENDLY blog owner on a place where one posts comments. Definitely food for later thought, if I don’t just forget that it ever happened, lawl…
Ariaflame says
By the way we have spam on Why I am an atheist – Alexandria Schneider (comment 152)
I don’t think I’ve used lame much. Pathetic is a better word.
Pteryxx says
Oooh! Excellently timed song, thank you Internet radio:
Combichrist – What The Fuck Is Wrong With You
HELL YAH
First Approximation says
Hi, everybody!
Been busy the last few days. Not even gonna try to catch up. I’ll just say I’m glad to hear KG is okay!
theophontes, flambeau du communisme says
@ pelamun 395
This is the same message contained in humanism. But what is the xtians ultimate goal? They are marching to two drums (not that it is impossible) and at some stage will have to make a choice. There are just so may contradictions between religious texts and humanist goals. They will have to cherry-pick their way around the texts or cherry-pick their way around their humanism.
A religion that places humans before the bible will become as relevant as a hobby. Fun, but of little practical use.
If atheism got redefined to include humanism, I’d think that it might alienate theists you might want as allies for certain causes. But I also know that the definition of what humanism is can also be variable.
Atheism is a logical outcome of humanism. If we make humans the centre of our rationale, rather than a skygod, I would say that the outcome is inevitable. Atheism is the tail and not the dog. To me, atheism is a (possible) subset of humanism and not the other way round.
In terms of allies to achieve humanist goals, religious people do make very good allies (and I have often worked with them in the past to very good effect.) My concern is more that the latent liabilities inherent in religion are potentially a grave risk to our humanist goals. (One need only read the bible to see that this is so. Imagine if some idjit in the future was ever to believe that shit? And then act on it!)
Xtianity was formerly a religion of the working classes and the poor. It has a very long history of “help thy neighbour”, which was missing from the pagan priestly class. So it really did a lot of good within their communities. But this was in spite of and not because of their belief in religious dwang. (For every “love thy neighbour” there are injunctions to “hate thy neighbours”. How then can the babble be the actual source of neighbourly concern.)
@ David Marjanović
Ok. Those with initiation rituals (as opposed to “revelation” type). I would also like to skip out shamans, witchdoctors, personal magic etc and refer to full blown religions. But I would get so verbose… ;)
@ ahs
(short lunch break response)
I really don’t see myself reaching such a time. I am quite happy to work from the position of imperfection and lack of such power. Every little bit helps. A little from strange gods and a little from theophontes and so many others does in the end affect positive change. We may never reach our goals but the effort is worth it in that the world will be so much the better for our efforts. (sorry, bizi backson)
spondee says
My chicken was divine.
ahs ॐ says
arguments against the use of “lame”, by those who write arguments
http://disabledfeminists.com/2009/10/12/ableist-word-profile-lame/
ahs ॐ says
www dot raggededgemagazine dot com/blogs/edgecentric/metaphors_for_bad/000792.html
did the maximum number of links suddenly drop from 2 to 1 around these parts?
ahs ॐ says
An Awkward Companion: Disability and the Semantic Landscape of English Lame; Jessi Elana Aaron; Journal of English Linguistics; March 2010; doi: 10.1177/0075424209347177
PDF in next comment:
ahs ॐ says
PDF http://www.zshare.net/download/967024457379407b/
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
Victoria-The Kinks
Sunny Afternoon-The Kinks
Where Have All The Good Times Gone-The Kinks
ahs ॐ says
theophontes,
By power I mean absolutely any and all power (even wattage jokes are welcome) and I use the word synonymously with freedom.
is what I would call the power of strange gods and theophontes and others.
I think we are in agreement; I just speak on grand scales for the sake of inspiration and Haidt’s elevation.
Nimravid says
Tethys: [ignore if you’re bunnied out]
I can’t speak for them, but for me,
1) The argument wasn’t about the author’s intent, the point was that there was an unfortunate stereotype represented in that cartoon, written in nearly neon (pastel?) lights.
2) he asserted a factual statement of the author’s intent (no sexism) without any proof himself, and then heaped scathing comments on someone, and blamed them for a flame war, because he thought they were asserting the author’s intent (sexism) without any proof.
But aside from the inconsistency of explicitly holding feminists to a different standard than him on the identical logical statement, he also replicated the Dear Muslima argument multiple times and said that women should shut up about the things that he thought were trivial, because the “rest of the world” was going to think it looked ridiculous. He later repeated the most objectionable parts of the “sometimes a bunny” original post, only more elaborately, making it very clear that he still believed the same things. He clearly, explicitly, did not change his mind on any of the issues that people were actually arguing about, only on his opinion of the author’s intent.
For instance, see PZ’s comment at 757, long after he “changed his mind”, to see what set my blood from simmer to ionized radiation and spawned a delurk after years of not commenting. (Comment 963 on sometimes a bunny is just a bunny)
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
Dance Song ’97-Sleater-Kinney
Youth Decay-Sleater-Kinney
Oh!-Sleater-Kinney
Pteryxx says
Tangential song, brought to you via my philosophical meanderings on integrity and forgiveness and speaking out and group identity, TVTropes’ “The Last DJ” page (look it up, I ain’t responsible for linking y’all there on a worknight) and the letters A. D. D. If y’all don’t cry, I’ve done it for you.
Mike Agranoff – The Ballad of the Sandman
Lyrics
And the track is available on his site: Mike Agranoff
Pteryxx says
rrgh, I keep missing my quotes. From the song above:
ahs ॐ says
Nobody but fundamentalists and antitheists care about that, though. Most religions have never had a text; most adherents of those which do aren’t primarily interested in the text, and you won’t be able to convince them that they ought to be.
Not just a matter of “will have to”; of course they will have to continue doing it, but they’ve already done it,
and it played a significant part in the civil rights struggle of African Americans last century. Quite practical, in practice.
Secular humanists have by now almost entirely succeeded as defining humanism to mean secular humanism. The self-described religious humanists don’t complain about it too much, as far as I can tell, not that I’be been listening. I suspect this probably has already alienated some who were more or less humanist in practice but not in name. I’m not sure this should bother me, though; I care more about practice.
Not if what the skygod wants for us is to be happy on our own terms, like modern parents tend to say of their children. Some religionists already hold this to be the case.
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
Pilot Can At The Queer Of God-Flaming Lips
Talkin’ ‘Bout The Smiling Deathporn Immortality Blues (Everybody Wants To Live Forever)-Flaming Lips
God Walks Among Us Now-Jesus Song Number 6-Flaming Lips
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
Human Being Lawnmower-MC5
Call Me Animal-MC5
Skunk (Sonically Speaking)-MC5
ahs ॐ says
The referent is still madness. If we’re going to keep going that route, I’d prefer demonic possession.
If we mean a person is displaying symptoms of psychosis, let’s say psychosis.
If we mean a person is irrational and stupid, let’s say irrational and stupid.
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
Regina-Sugarcubes
Hit-Sugarcubes
Fucking In Rhythm And Sorrow-Sugarcubes
Crip Dyke, Right Reverend Feminist FuckToy of Death & Her Handmaiden says
I’ve been weighing what to say and how to get involved on the “lame” conversation.
What makes lame insulting is its comparison to people with disabilities, people like me.
Lame, like almost any other word, should be alright to use as a metaphor when the user gets the meaning right.
“My bicycle is lame” is a great metaphor for a flat tire. It is an insulting use if one intends to say, ‘My bicycle is contemptible, worthless.”
Lame is used to communicate my inability to walk easily and/or pain free quite commonly. Whether it is used that way in your community, Caine & others, depends on your community.
But make no mistake: we who walk poorly or painfully are perfectly aware of what lame means, and (some of us more than others) can be quite sensitive to its use as well.
But even if nearly everyone had neglected this sense of the word, when people say a TV show is “lame,” they mean that it is unintelligent, boring, or lacking any qualities worthy of interest.
In short, people have been using, “lame,” as if it means, “not worth my time.”
If you believe that my comments and participation on this board are not worth your time, you are using this word in a way that is at least consistent. Luckily for you, I will, after a few uses, know what you think of me.
If you do not believe that my comments and participation on this board are not worth your time, every time you use the word in this way, you are causing me to question whether you believe that even though you don’t. After multiple uses, I might actually conclude that you believe something you don’t since you are providing me concrete evidence for that conclusion, unless other evidence is available that contradicts it.
Context matters, but in this case, it doesn’t help Pharyngulites. The Horde chooses to disapprove of sexist and racist and heterosexist language quite strongly. Such uses are avoided, and when used are stomped hard. It doesn’t take much time or effort, because a norm has been set here that the Horde intends to communicate that we value human beings without regard to sexual orientation or race or gender. Having set the norm, it doesn’t require much time to enforce it. In fact, when the odd person does use such language, the net result is often to make otherwise marginalized people feel **more** comfortable here because we witness the way such language is treated & that sends a message.
However, in an environment where certain oppressive messages are dealt with sharply, the lack of attention to other oppressive messages (including simple silence as well as references or responses without condemnation) send a very different message. Since we know what Pharyngula does when it cares about oppression, tacit sanction sends the message that Pharyngula does not care about ableism. There is no reason to take from such incidents that Pharyngulites value human beings without regard to disability the way there is when other insulting stereotypes/terms are used. Though actions in other comments do make clear that the Horde cares about ableism to some degree, the difference in concern is impossible not to note.
In fact, it is impossible not to note in *how* certain things are shot down, as well. While lame is in uncommon usage here as a dismissive or derisive term, crazy is used quite commonly. Worse, when people act with malice or evil, they are frequently described (or their actions are described) as crazy. Most often these uses go entirely unaddressed. Recently, someone described someone enganged in a vicious, malicious internet campaign as, “off her meds.” This did get a reaction (perhaps the equation of “crazy” and evil, violent, or dangerous is too common to give much note, but “off her meds” seemed concrete enough that it sparked people to object who otherwise might remain silent? I don’t know.) but the **nature** of the reaction was so different in tone to how the Horde treats people who engage in racism as to shock me into writing something. This is actually the thread about which I was exchanging info with ahs above.
I don’t like how it feels to see a, “guys, don’t do that,” when the Pharyngula norm for comments that appear similar to me is, “Fuck you, asshat – someone get PZ to bring the banhammer, stat!”
Seriously – “off her meds” was used to explain a campaign of malicious and threatening action that its contempt for other people is palpable to those that read it. But Human Ape once asked Josh if being gay made him less likely to punish pedophiles – didn’t accuse him of abusing children, just of being less pissed at those who did – and the reaction was immediate and severe.
Now, granted that Human Ape pulled other nastiness in that thread, but I’m talking about how that single comment was received. Sitting in my chair, I see:
“Someone is threatening and dehumanizing others and engaging in a vicious, concerted campaign to injure another person over months” == mentally ill
“Being sympathetic to someone facing accountability for criminal assaults” == loving someone of your own gender
Which, really, is the more offensive forced equivalence (assuming that neither are true, which, if you are in doubt about the falsity of the first, can be addressed separately)? I don’t believe that there is any question that the first is at least as offensive. There wouldn’t be any contest, really, except for the pervasive campaign to make gay men == pedophiles. This didn’t allege behavior as bad as child abuse, or even as bad as a campaign of deliberate injury, but it obviously alluded to the gay men == pedophiles forced equivalence that even tho’ it didn’t make it itself, one should certainly consider it more extreme than if the assertion was sympathy for a violent mugger who put someone in the hospital or something. That previous, separate-but-related forced equivalence ups the seriousness of Human Ape’s words.
But in the end, I can’t see it as *more* egregious.
Are they the same in the scale of the evil being associated with each group? In the literal evil being associated, not even in the same ballpark. If one (reasonably, but not of necessity) wants to interpret Human Ape’s comment in the worst light, given the ongoing campaign by the right wing to make being a gay man (and, more recently and to a lesser extent, a lesbian) == being a pedophile, the evil “associated” might be worse for the “gay men” comment, but this is not the comparison that was literally made, and it is quite a reasonable interpretation to consider the “gay men” comment as associating a much lesser evil, namely being “sympathetic” to the “plight” of abusers who are now facing negative press and possibly criminal charges.
Together, there seems no objectively clear reason why the “gay men” comment should be considered a much more egregious forced equivalence. So we might expect the Horde’s reaction to be similar.
Was the scale of the reaction by the Horde similar? Not even fucking close. We were clearly more invested in shooting down any thread of connection between gay men and pedophilia more than we were invested in shooting down any thread of connection between mental illness and malice or evil.
While that example deals explicitly with crazy, not lame, what I call “crazy-blaming” is insidious and, empirically, entirely unjustified and uncalled for. It also results in real harm. Although my involvement in civil commitment proceedings is exceptionally rare, I can tell you that what is considered evidence of “danger” would be considered quite bizarre in many cases without the assumption that mental illness = dangerous, randomly malicious, and potentially evil.
Lame’s equivalence with worthlessness is different, but it’s treatment by Pharyngulites is not different from the treatment of the word crazy: it is tolerated when used unless something else (like an explicit reference to medications) makes the usage seem exceptionally egregious.
As someone who has major depression and is lame, I can tell you that I feel the lack of Horde response to these two words acutely.
We don’t (yet) have a Pharyngula norm to oppose these expressions of harmful, ableist, false stereotypes. I did suggest that the Horde have a serious discussion about whether or not we should change that and develop such a norm, so part of me is glad this conversation is happening. However, the absence of a community norm still sends a message and still has an effect – on me, on one other person that I know offline, and, I would hazard to guess, on others. You get to make your own choice about how you respond to this current situation.
In short: You’ll suffer no consequences from PZ or most other regulars through profligate equivalence of “crazy” and “evil, or “lame” and “worthless.” However, if you don’t want to communicate to me that my contributions to this forum are judged in part on the “crip” at the front of my ‘nym, you’ll not only refrain from using lame, but pounce on it when you see it.
chigau (本当) says
ahs ॐ @543
That’s my plan.
SallyStrange, Spawn of Cthulhu says
Hey Crip Dyke, I wanted to tell you that your continued efforts to stamp out crazy-blaming and the use of insults that use psychosis and insanity as a reference have not gone unnoticed and unappreciated. I could be more vocal in objecting to those terms, and thanks to your explanations, I now feel I have the understanding to do so.
THANK YOU! You’re awesome.
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
Captain Ahab-Didjits
Sweet Sweet Satan-Didjits
Under The Christmas Fish-Didjits
chigau (本当) says
Thank you, Crip Dyke.
I intend to try.
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
Temple-Jane Siberry
The Walking-Jane Siberry
Waitress-Jane Siberry
Ariaflame says
Crip Dyke, extremely well said.
I don’t think that I normally fall into those traps, but I shall do my best to check any comments for ableist language as well as the various other ists.
rorschach says
ahs,
as promised, my philosophical main work, with reference to our discussion last night : We have a job to do, people !
Crip Dyke, Right Reverend Feminist FuckToy of Death & Her Handmaiden says
I hope people understand what I’m about to say as a serious attempt to communicate on a fundamental issue that affects most human beings during our lifetimes, and not as some cheap hyperbole, but I wanted to address something that was brought up by Janine.
Jane Siberry’s “Temple” is plain and simple one of the best songs, and the single most under-appreciated song, to which human beings may boink.
“Mmmmmmmmmm, Gimmee!” – ’nuff said.
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
Everyday I Start To Ooze-NoMeansNo
Rags And Bone-NoMeansNo
Beauty And The Beast-NoMeansNo
Crip Dyke, Right Reverend Feminist FuckToy of Death & Her Handmaiden says
Janine – can i ask what led you to be posting these music triplets? I searched this thread & the last incarnation, but I haven’t found any explanation.
Not that I’m complaining, just wondering. Thanks in advance.
SallyStrange, chigau, & Ariaflame – you’re welcome [blush]
Pteryxx says
Crip Dyke, seconding SallyStrange (and everyone else who posted before refresh, yikes.) I’ve been avoiding the use of “lame” while reserving judgement, and NOT calling it out, because I wasn’t sure if that word really referenced people with disabilities. (I was under the impression that it was an animal-specific term, making it merely disrespectful to a human while okay for concepts…)
Anyway, thank you very much for clarifying so brilliantly. From now on I’ll actively try to shut it down, along with “are you blind/deaf” and other ableist redactions from my habitual vocabulary, thanks to friends willing to call them out.
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
In recent years, Jane Siberry has gone completely of the deep end. But her eighties albums and When I Was A Boy remains supreme pleasures.
And Crip Dyke is right about Temple. Uuuummmm…Gimme…
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
No real reason. The last time I was posting songs, I ended posting only covers. It depends what mood in am in. Though looking at the artists and songs, it still seems I am all over the place.
Giliell, the woman who said Good-bye to Kitty says
Good morning
cicely
Urgh.
Fingers are crossed for your husband
—-
Only to people whose only experience with cats is Hello Kitty ;)
ablesist terms
I’ll comment on the German equivalents and their usage, since I don’t live in an english-speaking country
I think that lame has pretty much lost the synchronic idea of disabled.
Things that are lame are:
-not very exciting
-pretty slow
-a horse
So, a movie can be lame, my car is pretty lame, not because it’s broken, but because it doesn’t have much power. The original idea “disabled” usually only persists in “biblical language”, you know, how Jesus made the blind walking and the lame seeing.
The equivalent of insane, which I’d consider especially problematic in English because of the very root “sane”, is irre, and that has by now a pretty positive meaning in German.* Something that’s irre is cool, exciting, exceptional. So, an “irrer” movie would be the exact opposite of a lame movie.
Verrückt = crazy is more problematic since it still refers to mental problems as well.
*Exceptions apply. The noun is definetly ablesist. To drive like an Irrer = to drive like a madman. Not positive, pretty ableist.
Tethys says
Nimravid
Thank you for the rational response, complete with references to post numbers. It makes the reactions of a few of the posters who came late to the thread more understandable. It seemed to me that they were reading the OP, and then posting without reading the entire thread.
I was somewhat mystified that when I asked what exactly they were disagreeing with as to PZ’s “I was wrong”, I got a unclear angry rant on intent as a response.( Huh? That doesn’t answer/address the questions that I asked.)
Oh, and I think you should comment more too.
Birger Johansson says
You have probably heard some of these…
13 Funny Christmas Songs You Never Hear On The Radio (VIDEO) http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/11/27/funny-christmas-songs-_n_1115030.html
Example: Monty Python – “Christmas in Heaven”
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
Up Jumped The Devil-Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds
Jangling Jack-Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds
Dig!!! Lazarus Dig!!!-Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds
rorschach says
It’s a TET tradition.
Pteryxx says
Oo! I suggest SomaFM’s Xmas in Frisco stream, which has just about every humorous, irreverent, twisted, or offensive Xmas song ever invented. Recent playlist:
SomaFM
theophontes, flambeau du communisme says
@ 528 (my post)
Sorry this was pelamun’s comment that I responded to below that. (Had to rush off to hospital – nothing to worry about, routine check for my visa application, but I did bungle that blockquote.)
@ Nimravid
Arrrr…. welcome on board.
@ ahs 540
I do concede that you raise some very valid points here about the positive role that religion has played in underpinning the humanist cause.
Perhaps I should make a point to contrast my more pragmatic, day-to-day opinion, which can find itself in this, against a more long term and philosophical view (that is also personal).
Any help that can be given in breaking shackles is good. I just fear that embracing religion, treating it as a valid/truthful position, might not help our cause in the long run. Shackles get broken in the real world, but still our freedom is bounded by gawd – a concept that is inherently antithetical to a human oriented worldview. (Insert appropriate Steven Weinberg quote here.)
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
Out There-Blake Babies
I’m Not Your Mother-Blake Babies
Girl In A Box-Blake Babies
Beatrice says
I’m going to click on all these video links when I get home. Or at least I would like to, but I aways seem to forget by the time I get there.
rorschach says
Blackness of the night- Live
I don’t want to talk about it- Rod Stewart and Amy Belle
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
A Spy In The House Of Love-The dB’s
Spy In The House Of Love-Was(Not Was)
There’s A Spy (In The House Of Love)-Animal Logic
ahs ॐ says
I certainly wouldn’t treat religion as truthful, except where it happens to stumble upon truth.
I’m not sure what “valid” means here. So I’ll offer something that may be contentious, and see what you think of it:
I’ve said elsewhere that I think the decision to be an atheist because Daniel Radcliffe is an atheist is valid. I would likewise accept as valid the decision to favor gay marriage because Lady Gaga does. I trust these aesthetically-driven decisions as far as I trust the person’s commitment: is this person a true Lady Gaga fan, or will they change their mind as soon as Justin Bieber comes out with a chart-topper?
I judge religious identification similarly. Which church does the person go to? How long have they been going? I wasn’t even intending a joke when I said “the UUs have been liberal so long they’re conservative about it.” We can trust them as a group because they are heavily socially committed to policing each others’ identities as liberals. They are in deep, and they have no exit strategy.
rorschach says
Alphaville-Forever Young Live
Tom Waits-Chocolate Jesus Live
Caine, Fleur du Mal says
ahs:
I know you have a bit of a love affair going with irrational, however, you are aware, are you not, that irrational is widely used when it comes to mental health issues? No one word is going to be completely clean on that score.
Crip Dyke:
I rarely use the word lame or hear it used. I’ve never heard it used even when I’m having one of those times where it’s difficult for me to walk and I’m going about with my cane. The times I have heard it with any frequency have had to do with horses. *shrug*
rorschach says
The Piano has been drinking-Live
Muddy Waters-Got my Mojo workin’
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
(I Know) I’m Losing You-The Faces
Flying-The Faces
Miss Judy’s Farm-The Faces
ahs ॐ says
That’s why I’m proposing it as methadone for those who are addicted to crazy. Irrationality is in fact a feature of some mental health issues, particularly some which are more often called crazy than sick or retarded. So I think irrationality is more or less the feature that people want to comment on when they use crazy.
Pteryxx says
to ahs:
Humans’ aesthetic sense and moral sense appear to be functionally associated (a rough clipboard or disordered street with harsh judgement, IIRC) while group identity’s linked to survival. You’ve thought about this in way more depth than I have; are you more confident in trusting these irrational systems prone to irrational forms of error than in reasoning?
Personally I’d argue for fairness because fairness as a concept, as a feature of a society or group dynamic, or as a personal characteristic, generally leads to better outcomes than unfairness does: stability, reinforcement and reward of trust, reduced stress and such. (As near as I can tell I’m some sort of hedonistic utilitarian, thanks to one whole semester of ethics way back when.)
Alethea H. Claw says
Crip Dyke, thanks for that excellent post. I intend to reread it a couple of times. I don’t think the Pharyngula norm is to be intentionally able-ist, though. Pharyngula has had a lot of education on sexism in the last year, and some new norms have arisen from that. (Some surprising ones, too, like also not using “dick” as an insult.) I think it’s a conversation we need to have.
I think our problems with ableism are much more about unthinking privilege than ill-will, and that most of the Horde will be able to get past that given time and patience. I’m not sure how much you have the patience to do all the educating, though.
rorschach says
Big Mama Thornton-Ball and Chain
All my loving-Amy Winehouse
Will you still love me tomorrow-Amy Winehouse
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
Oh. Fuck it! I remain a child of the seventies.
Barracuda-Heart
Crazy On You-Heart
Magic Man-Heart
ahs ॐ says
Generally yes, but watch out for the disordered street example, because Diederik Stapel is currently being accused of falsifying data.
Not more confident, no. I just don’t think most people can do the reasoning, no matter how much we demand it of them. I know I can’t.
In lieu of reasoning, I’m willing to trust those who’ve demonstrated commitment to our shared values at cost to themselves.
Tethys says
I Can’t Stand The Rain The Commitments/Angeline Ball
I nominate Cassandra Wilson – New Moon Daughter as best album to boink to. I even find her version of Strange Fruit to be beautiful.
Solomon Sang
A Little Warm Death
Tethys says
Janine
I love all three of those Heart songs. The guitar licks are sooo good!
In the comments for magic man, some idiot is claiming its about Charles Manson. Xe must have missed the “got the magic hands” lyric.
Crip Dyke, Right Reverend Feminist FuckToy of Death & Her Handmaiden says
@ Althea – #577
Never thought for a minute that it had to do with ill-will. This community isn’t very much like that – not saying that individual members of the community *couldn’t* have ill-will, but that the community as a whole seemed an exceedingly unlikely candidate for a group of cripple-haters.
@Caine –
I’d heard you say something similar upthread. I don’t doubt at all your experience, but I’ve done a lot of reading on the development of language…and I’m also just plain old enough to see certain things happen. It’s pretty clear to me that “lame” is still in general use as a disability term, though it is often more likely to be used in certain communities (runners & certain other athletes “pull up lame,” my father’s servicemates were “lamed” in war and are “lame” now, etc.).
I see the issue in a similar way to the Horde when it opposes certain terms that some people insist have lost gendered associations in their own communities: we get that people who have that experience come to their usage of the word without ever associating it with gendered denigration, but in this international internet forum (which would cross many communities even if it were somehow firewalled from the entire world but the US), the fact that someone comes by the word lame in such a way as to be totally without association with disability isn’t relevant to whether it’s appropriate for use here.
And, again, it has rare use on this blog. In terms of overt use, “crazy” is much more the problem, but the reactions to both simply compose a clear indicator that the Horde has not made up its mind on how it wants to respond to everyday, unconsidered ableism.
No anger or ill-will toward any single person on Pharyngula should be inferred from my earlier, long post.
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
Little Girl Blue-Janis Joplin
To Love Somebody-Janis Joplin
Trust Me-Janis Joplin
Good night everybody.
theophontes, flambeau du communisme says
@ ahs
Well take a common Prop8 argument: “Gay marriage should be illegal because … bible!” Though you could say how do we prove that it is an invalid argument. I would then put on my humanist cap and say that the position is harmful to a specific group of people (and furthermore benefits no living creature). If other’s feel impelled for some biblical reason to do the right thing, I might still have to chalk it up to coincidence. (At least when couched in terms of “because the babble”.)
I am sure we will all be off the mark. But if we keep pushing in the right direction the net result is positive. (I am reminded of the story of a crowd told to guess a persons height. Although being all over the place in individual guesswork, when combined and averaged it turned out to be extremely accurate.)
More “interesting” than “contentious”. I like the graph. It also makes sense that when we highlight issues (in this case support for gay marriage). It enters into the public debate and a large mass of opinions settle down into new positions. I would expect somethimg like this from large groups of rational, sociable animals. Concensus is a really good thing to build upon. It is robust and inclusive an will give the best workable result for the average individual. It plays a very large role in traditional African politics. Sadly it seems in short supply in the US of A currently.
In consensus politics it would not be surprising to get a more humane result (in part because the gay community would become so more vocal and force an ongoing rational debate.) Perhaps there is far more consensus building going on below the surface than I am able to point to right now in American politics. (When placed to a simple vote I could not imagine the same result. People would not be arguing to the point of consensus (which can take years) but making quick and emotional responses at the time of the voting.)
Pteryxx says
Thanks for the heads-up re Stapel.
…I think I agree on that, but it’s the same dynamic that leads to critically flawed judgements like Christians attacking abortion providers: they are committed to shared values, they’re just prioritizing the wrong fucking values. Someone also needs to be willing to break from the group if the group’s doing something wrong. (Caveat: I suspect I personally put more value on dissent and less on group identity than most, maybe more than I should.) And, one reason to join a group in the first place is that the group shares one’s values.
So… where did the person’s values come from in the first place?
(Not that I’m particularly coherent at four AM anyway, so here’s some salt to take my words with: …….)
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
I adore A Warm Little Death.
And for the sake of your sanity, never read YouTube commentary.
rorschach says
40 years onwards: The Ronettes-Be My Baby live 2007
The Original: The Ronettes-Be My Baby Live 1965
Phil Collins-You Can’t Hurry Love Live
rorschach says
It’s ok as an anthropological experiment I guess.
ahs ॐ says
Peyton Manning.
+++++
A welcome example, because I spent so much time thinking about it at the time. :)
This is a necessary sort of argument if we are going to legalize same-sex marriage worldwide by the year 2200. We cannot do without it.
If we want to beat Prop 8 in November 2008, though, this is taking the inefficient route. It’s extremely difficult to take down the very notion that religious group identification is a valid argument. And when we’re pressed for time on a particular issue, we can’t afford to be perfectionists.
Here I would try to activate the salience of the person’s other identities: as an American who believes in fairness and equal treatment for all; and especially as a consumer of romantic commodities, who believes love is a many splendored thing, love lifts us up where we belong, all you need is love.
I’m not kidding, I thought “this is a very South African thing to say”, before I read the next couple sentences.
I do not, at the moment, have anything useful to say about introducing the concept to the USA.
rorschach says
Ronnie Spector and Joey Ramone- Bye Bye Baby
Mary Hopkin-Those Were The Days
theophontes, flambeau du communisme says
@ Pteryxx
I would place a lot of confidence in the (supposed) chaos of the process rather than in a rational plan. I recently posted for pelamun an extract from a book I recommended (Spiro Kostof).
The masterplan shown (imposed by the Romans no less) in each of several different communities was examined. Through incremental changes the towns utterly transformed themselves to better suite the lifestyles of the inhabitants. Each case was quite unique in spite of there being no overt planning in the transformations. Millions of tiny changes, interactions, additions and subtractions (none particularly focused on an end goal) gave rise to these iconic new forms. In the same way we can live our transformations in a societal sense. Just head, even vaguely and individually, towards a general expression of your way of life and the very fabric will transform itself around you.
This type of urban development is consensual, made up of a plurality of tiny transactions. We often term it “organic”. There is no reason we could not build up more ephemeral/ethereal aspects of society in like manner.
In terms of the “group identity”… I don’t think this is really as stable (hard wired) a concept as some let on. Surely the concept in each individual is in a constant state of flux? We are not in stable family/ tribal environments all the time and our group relationships coalesce and disperse constantly. In the Prop8 case, there may be no group position as much as many individual positions. And in discussions, especially with opposing views, rationality will gradually triumph, especially as consensus shifts and a way forward is found.
(I don’t know how to find the original linky I made wrt that town layout.)
ahs ॐ says
I know, but I have a neat trick for them! :)
See study 2 of doi 10.1037/0022-3514.72.5.1132. It is possible to prime people to act more rationally simply by asking them nicely: “please carefully consider your answers […] before responding. We would like you to be as rational and analytic as possible in responding to these questions. Please be careful and thorough when considering your responses to the questions.”
Not a panacea, but I’ve yet to see a better option. So we can use this when our opponents are coming to conclusions we don’t like.
Nationalist indoctination, media saturation, rebellion against the parents’ generation. All the usual suspects.
Most people hold multiple conflicting ideals about who they are. If you’re arguing with a conservative Christian, do not affirm their identity as such. Do not say “I know you believe X because you’re Christian.” Don’t even remind them; it’s a losing strategy. Find another identity, one which is more promising, and affirm that instead: “I know you’re the kind of person who believes in fairness, and that’s why I think you should reconsider X.”
theophontes, flambeau du communisme says
PS: Original Linky.
echidna says
If “irrational” becomes a tainted word because of how it is sometimes used, and transcendental is a little too much like woo, then what word do we use to describe pi?
Seriously, if we want to avoid words like irrational, we need to be clear on why it is a suboptimal word to use. Otherwise, we would also avoid words like “democratic”, because so many military dictatorships use it to hide the fact that they are anything but democratic.
ahs ॐ says
It’s often a slow flux. And there are some that never change for most people. The modern US American is always going to be sensitive to appeals about equality. The modern Australian will, throughout life, feel compelled to hear the request for a fair go.
I don’t see it. Demographics is almost always a strong predictor of voting patterns.
If “what is rational” is defined post hoc as what most people willing to acquiesce to. :)
ahs ॐ says
I don’t know if Caine was really suggesting it’s something to avoid. I thought she was just wanting to make sure I’d thought of that facet?
theophontes, flambeau du communisme says
2200… Waaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyy to late. I predict it will happen much sooner than that (except for perhaps the most backward countries).
It is a reality in many countries (eg South Africa). If people argue against, just point at SA. Another fool argument is that gay marriage undermines straight marriage. If anything, gay marriages (in my experience in SA at least) are an inspiration to straight married couples as examples of how relationships can stay loving and lasting.
I would like to say I could map out a solution (I would certainly use words like: consensus, republic (as vehemently opposed to Republicans), constitution, equity, human-rights, forum, transformation, case-study, pragmatism…) on the other hand Merkins and their politics are completely foreign to me, as much as I am intrigued by that weirdest of countries.
Ariaflame says
While South Africa may have legal gay marriage, am I right in remembering that the homophobic attitudes are still a problem there?
ahs ॐ says
Except I really meant worldwide, not just where you see momentum.
Apparently outside the United States it is not uncommon to point to what other countries do and say “why don’t we try that”.
This does not work in the USA, for two reasons. First, there are no other countries besides the USA. Second, even if there were, we wouldn’t care what a bunch of fucking communists do.
theophontes, flambeau du communisme says
@ ahs
[demographics &} If “what is rational” is defined post hoc as what most people willing to acquiesce to. :) Things like these creep me out a bit. I really would like to think this is not true, but at the same time have to consider that they might well be.
Mundane example: The metric system is extremely rational (and internally consistent, meaning techniques like “dimensional analysis” are easy to utilise). For some reason teh Merkins have acquiesced to a knock-off imperial system. Some, like scientists and the military, are aware this is batshit crazy and still push against it.
Giliell, the woman who said Good-bye to Kitty says
URgh, back home.
Had to buy some new jeans for me and I hate it. It’s not bad enough because I’m fat, my body is also so much not standard-proportions for which jeans are made. Back too long, waist too full for the legs who are in turn too short for anything. Finally got two. And tights for #1. And I swear there were none in green, yellow or red. There seems to be a law against those colours. Cream, white, pink, purple for the girls, brown, black, grey, dark denim blue for the boys *AAAAAAAAAAARRRRRGH*
——–
Talking about language. I’m not sure if that has come up before, but what about “idiot”? Is it still associated with disability? In German I would say it’s more about willfully being an asshole, not about lack of ability. I’m pretty sure that nobody (well, sure there’s somebody) would still associate it with the group it was used for. No association with kids with a down-syndrome or a birth-defect, but people who are reckless, who don’t pay attention to other people or rules, who could behave in a better way but who don’t.
Oh, and may I mention that I’m really uncomfortable with the “go die in a fire”?
I’m fine with porcupines, or telling people to go on the Autobahn and play with something poisonous, because they are frankly unreal. There’s no supply of decaying porcupines big enough. But dying in a fire is real, and it’s horrible. It’s one of those things you don’t wish on your worst enemies and it used to be a form of capital punishment. It makes me cringe whenever I read it.
theophontes, flambeau du communisme says
@ Ariaflame
This is absolutely true. Laws protecting human rights do not mean that there are suddenly people unwilling to break the law. And even more alarmingly, people in authority willing to go easy on such criminal behaviour.
Lesbians in South Africa come in for especially harsh treatment in some very conservative (generally poor) communities. The term is “corrective rape” for sexual assault under the pretext that it will “cure” people of their “offensive” sexuality.
There is a similarly inane belief that poor people can somehow “infect” communities with their poverty and often the destitute are murdered.
I must point out the importance of there actually being such protective laws in the first place (unlike, for example, the US) even if the resources or political will is not yet in place. At least there is no state-level endorsement of iniquity.
Carlie says
myeck waters, I’m so sorry. That’s absolutely horrible. Hugs if you want ’em.
Giliell, the woman who said Good-bye to Kitty says
Argh, fuck.
myeck waters, I totally forgot to tell you that I’m sorry. My sincere condolences, best wishes and hugs if wanted are with you, your spouse and your family
Thanx, Carlie, for reminding me.
theophontes, flambeau du communisme says
@ Josh
Phoenicia (Polysaccharides Be Upon Her) update.
She was bubbling away this morning before I fed Her. So I gave Her some flour and a little sugar (for her bowl) mixed in with some warm water and milk. Perfect Goddess food in other words. She went absolutely apeshit within just a few minutes and bubbled out of her glassy home. I have now installed her in the fridge to restore Order In The Universe once more.
John Morales says
Giliell,
Hazard of modernity.
Used to be, you could go to a tailor and get custom-made pants for maybe 50-100% more than off-the rack; for that, you’d get nice fit, nice finish and comfort.
Giliell, the woman who said Good-bye to Kitty says
OK, and this is a double-post because I really didn’t want to post those things together:
*doing a little happy dance*
1st My professor is still willing to accept me to write my thesis.
2nd At the weekend I got a wonderful compliment about my teaching skills. Mr’s aunt’s colleague used to be one of my Spanish-students, but she had to change to a different teacher because of timetables (I’m teaching at a public evening school where people mostly learn for the fun of it) and she’s genuinly unhappy with not being able to take classes with me whom she thinks to be the best language teacher she ever had.
Now I’ll take that warm, fuzzy feeling to bed with me, because I’m still hung up with this fucking cold
Beatrice says
That one makes me cringe too.
John Morales says
theophontes:
The Imperial system is rational too:
1 foot is 12 inches, one yard is 3 feet, 1 chain is 22 yards, 1 furlong is 10 chains, one mile is 8 furlongs, and 1 league is 3 miles.
(What? :) )
changeable moniker says
Me @#481. I was so sure that Kerouac wrote On The Road on taped sheets. But, no.
(In case it helps explain.)
Crip Dyke, Right Reverend Feminist FuckToy of Death & Her Handmaiden says
Ack.
Myeck & KG – I also meant to pass on some empathetic thoughts, but I wanted to get the big post on ableist langauge out of the way, and then… well, basically I got wrapped up in my own stuff and forgot. I’m sorry.
Please do know that I’m thinking of you now and previously, even if I wasn’t for a couple of hours.
………….
Separately, on a decidedly trivial problem — there was a documentary I saw a few years ago. It was a “science of the solar system” type documentary. Part of the hook was imagining exploring those places instead of just panning a camera over enhanced images and spouting facts.
I can find the BBC documentary “voyage to the planets”. What I’m trying to find isn’t that. It uses CG people for most (all?) of the human shots. There is a memorable, if silly, bit in which one of the CG astronauts goes snowboarding on a moon of a gas giant (Titan? Triton? Europa? I don’t remember).
It’s theoretically possible it wasn’t a BBC production, but the snowboarding I’m sure of. Does anyone have any idea what the name of this docu-drama might be? I enjoyed it as an adult, but it was really loved by some kids I was babysitting, and I am trying to remember it so that I can recommend it to some parent friends of mine.
Any leads at all are great – I’ll be happy to check them out on my own if you can come up with titles.
Thanks,
CD
opposablethumbs, que le pouce enragé mette les pouces says
Not forgetting the nautical miles, of course. And what about the rods or roods or whatever they were? Have to have some to go with the chains, don’t we?
opposablethumbs, que le pouce enragé mette les pouces says
Oh, and cubits. Might as wekk have cubits. And spans.
changeable moniker says
Don’t forget grains, drams, ounces, pounds, hundredweights, and tons. ;)
Link.
Walton says
I try to avoid ableist insults, of late; I’ve been trying to break myself of the lifelong habit of using “insane” as an insult.
When I analyze this, I find it difficult, though, to think about which insults I am comfortable using without any qualms. The trouble is that there are not, I think, many insults available in the English language (other than those that we have recently invented specifically for this purpose) that don’t rest ultimately on some kind of implied bigotry, stereotyping, or implied denigration of a particular group. After all, although “idiot” has largely lost its association with mental disability in modern English (while “retard”, which I do not use, has not, and remains an offensive word), it’s still the case that “idiot” was used in the nineteenth and twentieth centuries, both in psychology and in law, as a descriptive term for people with certain severe mental disabilities. (“Imbecile”, “moron” and “cretin” have comparable histories.) Indeed, nineteenth- and early-twentieth-century laws in many countries often debar “idiots” from voting or holding public office. The word may have largely lost its associations now, but it was certainly originally ableist.
It isn’t just ableist insults that are part of the vernacular in this way. I’ve objected to phrases like “blogwhore” and “attention whore” on the ground that they demean and stigmatize actual sex workers, for instance.
I’m certainly not intending to make excuses for using any of these insults. Rather, perhaps the wisest course, overall, is to insult people less in general. Of course, I should qualify this statement with certain important exceptions. There are a great many epithets that are both insulting and accurately descriptive; calling a racist a racist, or a homophobe a homophobe, might very well be understood as insulting, but is also accurate and frequently necessary, for instance. Similarly, when someone who should know better is making stupid arguments, it’s entirely justified and often necessary to call hir arguments stupid. (Which is separate from the situation in which someone is actually mentally-impaired in some way, in which case “stupid” becomes a demeaning term.) But as soon as we begin to use insults that are in some sense metaphorical or hyperbolic, and that are intended specifically to hurt the person to whom one is referring rather than simply to describe his or her behaviour, we run into this problem.
(Needless to say, I’m just thinking out loud here, and could be wrong.)
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I agree. I used it once (years ago), in a fit of rage, in reference to 50 Cent after I was angry about his homophobic comments. I regretted it, didn’t actually mean it even at the time, and felt terrible about it afterwards. I have never used it since and will never do so again.
theophontes, Hexanitrohexaazaisowurtzitane Wielding Tardigrade says
(eight dry quarts)
Benjamin "F-Bomberman" Geiger says
I’d rather have the pickled peppers.
Giliell, the woman who said Good-bye to Kitty says
You’re lucky, children in the metric system are required to eat a (metric)pound of dirt to stay healthy
Birger Johansson says
Crip Dyke, here is another documentary: “Alien Planet” (2005) http://www.amazon.com/Alien-Planet-Wayne-D-Barlowe/dp/B002C39T2I/ref=wl_it_dp_o_npd?ie=UTF8&coliid=I3BIYMRHDSFXE0&colid=3ERH7ILHLJF9H
— — — —
My name is LUCA -A precursor to the Solaris ocean?
“Life began with a planetary mega-organism” http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg21228404.300-life-began-with-a-planetary-megaorganism.html
— — — — — — — — —
Solaris (1972) Final Scene [SPOILER] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=voc5Ofbglto
opposablethumbs, que le pouce enragé mette les pouces says
I referred to “in a fire” for the first time yesterday, trying to be facetious. Won’t do so again (I’ll just have to try and be a bit more inventive, which wouldn’t be a bad thing).
Birger Johansson says
“Go and die in a fire”
Will not work on a golem or talos. Burning them will only make them angry.
pelamun says
Pteryxx,
hehe, I know the song, and like it very much, we even studied it in school. Here’s a German version sung by Marlene Dietrich.
Theophontes,
what you’re saying makes a lot of sense. But as far as Europe goes, I’m not even sure what their “ultimate goal” might be, at least of the vast majority (not talking about the Michelle Bachmann clones, or the Pray Station people).
Alethea,
according to etymological dictionaries
pusillanimous was first attested in Engish in the 14c
pussy OTOH
or rather puss as “cat” was attested from the 1520s (some other languages do have a word for “cat” cognate to puss), though it might be older than that.
Apparently the use of a “cat” word for female gentials is common in some European languages, including French (“le chat”) and German (“Muschi”), so it’s no surprise to find a similar development for English.
There are some other competing theories, like Old Norse puss “pouch”, or Old French pucelle “slang term for women”, but that comes with the territory (i.e. swearwords are sometimes hard to trace). But never do the sources mention any kind of original meaning as in “coward”, so the idea to connect it to pusillanimous is untenable (there aren’t any other parallel examples that a Latinate adjective has been shortened in such a way). The “cowardly” meaning is apparently first attested in the 20th century, in North America, so if it was indeed an abbreviation of pusillanimous, that should be well-attested. But it isn’t, so it’s just a folk etymology.
Walton,
I think idiot is a borderline case. The argument that etymology is not a valid argument for synchronic usage also goes in the opposite direction. The Norwegian word jente “girl” comes from an Old Norse word meaning “fool” (and similarly, gut(t) “boy” from a word that meant “braggard” or “scoundrel”). Should Norwegians now stop using the word based on its etymology? But in the case of idiot, its discriminatory use was much more recent, so that’s why I think it might be in a gray area.
Birger Johansson says
“Why 72 virgins is more like a punishment, not a reward.” https://proxy.freethought.online/rockbeyondbelief/2011/11/27/why-72-virgins-is-more-like-a-punishment-not-a-reward/
BTW if you like swearwords, go to Finland. They are very inventive.
Pteryxx says
good morning portcullis!
for y’all’s information, Maryam Namazie is asking for signatures on a petition for humanist support of Arab Spring:
FTB link
Also, a discussion on how atheist conferences seem to invite Just One ex-Muslim speaker, and her offer to suggest more:
FTB link: Only One
Antiochus Epiphanes says
When the ideas or actions of people do not reflect sanity or rationality, it seems dishonest to call those ideas or actions anything other than insane or irrational. This is maybe too fine a point, but judging an idea or action to be insane or irrational, rather than labeling a person as such, does not constitute an insult*.
I think the bigger problem with ableist privilege is the failure to recognize that, like physical illness, we are all subject to mental illness. None of us are in actuality completely privileged in this regard. Despite the stigmatism of those few who are treated for their maladies, failure or disinclination to deal with our own mental illnesses doesn’t mean that these illnesses doesn’t exist. Further, in some environments, the structure of a mental disability is not actually pathological, and therefore unlikely to be recognized as a disability per se.
While I do not wish to stigmatize people whose mental state is pathological in their given environment, I do not know how else to express the fact that people have genuinely irrational ideas that I believe stem from something wrong with the way that their brains work, even if the utter conventionality of some forms of irrationality prevent anyone in a medical field from recognizing this as illness.
For example, I think that Michelle Bachmann is not only deranged, but dangerously so. Given her environment, this has not been a detriment to her success, or maybe even her well-being. Nonetheless, I can’t think of any more suitable word to describe what I honestly believe her condition to be.
*Although try explaining that to my mom.
pelamun says
But isn’t the All-Finnish swearword Perkele actually the name of the highest (?) deity of the traditional polytheistic religion. Somehow that makes me sad… (about the same feeling I had when I saw the shrine of the traditional clan deity of the Ryukyuan Royal House, which was somewhere in the woods and totally desolate.)
Ariaflame says
I don’t think many people are still using ‘slug’ for a mass unit but I could be wrong.
Seriously though I do understand to a large extend why the USA is still using non-metric. Part of it may be to do with the perception of the USA as leading the world rather than being a follower, but I believe the largest part is because it’s a huge huge job. The number of things that would have to be changed to swap over is astoundingly big. Just changing cars to km/h rather than mph would be tricky. First you’d have to make sure that every new car had both mph and km/h speedometer readings. Or make it possible to retrofit old cars. Then you’d have to change all the speed signs. Simultaneously, or possibly on a state by state basis. And the signs would have to be different to the old signs so it was clear which they were. And everyone would have to be educated about the upcoming change, and know exactly when it was. And it would still probably be a mess.
One person changing what they do is easy. Getting an entire country to do so, especially one so large as the states is another thing entirely.
Pteryxx says
I’d say we’re all subject to bias and cognitive error, too, but very true.
Some places use the term TAB for non-disabled people: Temporarily Able-Bodied. …Which makes me cringe, but does have a point. Almost everyone who lives long enough will become disabled at some point, even if only a very little bit, like using crutches for a few weeks, or being unable to drive while on meds. Hence, able-bodied privilege.
Major mental illnesses are much more common than most folks realize, too. And, have much less social support… and I just realized the cruel American health care system has a lot to do with that. People with well-controlled mental illnesses may not be able to admit it lest they lose coverage.
Lynna, OM says
This Moment of Mormon Madness is a rare opportunity to side with BYU students. There are some critics of Brigham Young University that are so vile that the self-policing efforts of BYU students pale in comparison.
So, this is the kind of impenetrable ignorance BYU students are up against when they try to move, ever so slightly, into the realm of tolerance, into the realm of facts: [warning, venom dripping from “The standard of Liberty Voice” is corrosive]
A great deal more of the venom is available here:
http://standardofliberty.org/janice54whatshappeningatbyu.html
theophontes, Hexanitrohexaazaisowurtzitane Wielding Tardigrade says
They must just take care they do not end up behaving like (original Greek sense) idiots.
(I suspect it might be too late to wrestle this word back. What other term would fill this gap then?)
@ Pterryx
Signed already. Good that you posted the link though.
Lynna, OM says
a_ray_in_dilbert_space:
I send rocks through the mail as well. My rock madness is infinite.
Occasionally, I do not get a reply from people to whom I send rocks as a gift. But most people really appreciate getting something real, something unusual, and something that prompts the expansion of their knowledge base.
It’s a good thing I don’t have the necessary resources to go to mineral shows. I am jealous of your visit to Brazil.
If I have a rock-worth-wearing I usually have it set in silver — which is also expensive, but less so than gold. My geologist brother is also a custom jeweler.
One of the benefits of finding jewelry-grade samples on your own is that it forces you to learn a little bit of geology. You slowly build up your in-the-field expertise.
Rey Fox says
My car gets forty rods to the hogshead, and that’s the way I like it.
chigau (本当) says
Ariaflame
FYI
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metrication
theophontes, Hexanitrohexaazaisowurtzitane Wielding Tardigrade says
@ pelamun
“idiot” is a damn fine word in its original meaning (though most unfortunately fraught with later connotations):
(I think the link has given problems. The meaning is also discussed on teh Pffft.)
/repost
pelamun says
Theophontes,
if you want to play the game “etymology squared”, then I’ll have to say that your cited negative meaning is also a derivation. The root ἴδιος (idios, “one’s own, pertaining to oneself, private”) has a neutral meaning, and is the source for words such “idiom” (this already at Classic times as ἰδίωμα – idiōma, “special feature, special phrasing”) and “idiolect” (i.e. your own dialect of one), “idiosyncrasy” etc.
theophontes, Hexanitrohexaazaisowurtzitane Wielding Tardigrade says
@ Ariaflame
It has been done throughout the world. One should certainly not exaggerate the difficulties (it is an individuals adjustment in each case, not a sum total = HUGE problem). You might find those who complain the most are actually least affected by the changes. No need to change existing cars. You only need to keep within the old limits anyhow.
The people most affected, scientists, engineers and military will have to make the biggest changes, but will be the most welcoming, as they will benefit the most. It really will make a world of difference going from monty-python style units to something more coherent.
Rev. BigDumbChimp says
I’m still not completely sold that petitions like this do much more than register people’s opinion, which is worthy enough, so might as well do that much.
http://hisdbully.org/sign-the-petition/
pelamun says
Re Metrification in the US:
I mean standards and measures are even one of the enumerated powers of Congress acc to the constitution, so a simple bill passed by Congress should do the trick…
cicely, unheeded prophetess of the Equine Apocalypse says
myeck waters, I’m sorry to hear about the excessive suckage life is dumping on you just now. *booze*? *chocolate*? Sympathy, regardless.
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Yes. All you can do is deal with it as best you can, and keep an eye out for the funny.
Even if, sometimes, the funny is in questionable taste.
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Giliell, I’m with you all the way on the jeans-purchasing hate. It’s so rare that I find a pair that fits my butt, thighs, and waist all at the same time—length is a pleasantly-surprising optional extra. And I do so wish that the garment industry would pick a sizing standard and stick the fuck with it. When I have tops that are labelled 2X, and tops that are labelled 4X, that all fit the same way, something is wrong, wrong, wrong. It makes for a lot of unnecessary extra time spent trying stuff on. Hate, hate, hate.
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Also used to be that if you were a size 2X, you could reasonably expect garments labelled as being in that size to at least be somewhere in the ballpark.
The people responsible for the label inflation better not find themselves on my lawn, is all I can say. *grumble*
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serendipitydawg (one headed, mutant spawn of Echidna) says
Switch to metric? Have you no scruples?
Katherine Lorraine, Chaton de la Mort says
@cicely:
*snrk* I’ve given up ever getting clothing that perfectly fits me (either mens or womens fashion) because I’m tall, thin, and have long legs and a somewhat short torso. In measurement I’ve got a 28-inch waist and 36-inch leg (28-34s would be perfect for me.) With mens jeans the first 34-inch length leg is in a 32-inch waist. The longest 28-inch waist is a 30-inch leg. I wear 30-32s, which are too wide and too short.
Strangely I find a womens 8 to fit me around the waist, but goddamn is it annoying to find a proper size with all the stores going vanity sizing and where an 8 in one store is big but small in another. *huff-puff*
So yea, I never am wearing properly shaped clothing for me, but that’s how it just is.
(also I wish I had proper hips and booty… I’m straight and flat, sucks)
Katherine Lorraine, Chaton de la Mort says
@serendipitydawg:
I lost all my scruples in the war :(
chigau (本当) says
If the garment industry(s) gave up on “sizes” and went to (metric) measurements, I’d be happier.
In Japan I’m XL, in Canada I’m M or S.
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Katherine Lorraine
One of the ads on my page right now is for bum-padded underwear.
Probably not pratical for work clothes but for party duds…
serendipitydawg (one headed, mutant spawn of Echidna) says
I really shouldn’t try puns…
Don’t be sad: you have your principles!
Regarding jeans:
I used to be able to stock up on 26″ and 27″ waist size in the sales but these days even 28″ is problematical. I am thankful that modern youth has developed somewhat more adult proportions so that jeans aimed at the modern 13 year old tend to fit with a bit of shortening.
Nerd of Redhead, Dances OM Trolls says
Actually, most of those mentioned are already on the metric system. The US has officially been metric since just after the Civil War, but common usage is tough to replace. Back in the late 70’s (IIRC), the push was on to change cars/milage signs to push the change, with cars having mph and kmph and road signs both mile and km. Common people objected, and as usual industry overinflated their costs (gee, really cost one-tenth their estimate when they made the change on their own). So the change was dropped by congress.
Richard Austin says
Catching up (I think)…
“Shorthand” insulting names are intended to dismiss someone easily without having to know the details. We don’t say, “his opinion is not worth considering because he has failed, repeatedly, to examine the subject with any kind of detail or attempt at understanding and instead makes statements for which he has no justification,” we say “he’s stupid.” It’s a simplified dismissal.
A friend of mine and I argue philosophy, science, and a whole bunch of things all the time. As we do so, we’ve come up with a list of arguments we’ve rehashed enough to just refer to them by names – similar to “Courtier’s reply” kinds of things. Would it be reasonable to build up a list of similar dismissals that could be used as accurate insults? Like, “you’re being such a courtier.”
The alternative is to try to eliminate personal insults entirely; that might be “worthier”, but I’m not sure how practical it is.
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With regards to going metric – to my understanding, the biggest hurdle isn’t the social one, it’s engineering. All of our plants, tools, machinery, diagrams, etc., are all based on imperial measurements. Switching to metric would require replacing literally billion and billions of dollars worth of such equipment on top of millions of hours of labor to redesign equipment.
Think about just doing automobiles: for a start, every single piece of equipment on every manufacturing line in the nation would have to be replaced. Every tool in every auto mechanic’s shop (and every home tinkerer) would need to be re-bought. All those things would need to be redesigned: you can’t just convert from rational inches to whatever random metric value they have, since you’ll end up with extremely odd sizes and numbers that won’t fit as precisely together (and precision is a huge issue).
This is Y2K-bug level work to the 3rd or 4th power, and that’s just one industry. That’s why the issue for the US is larger than a lot of other countries: many of those countries had to rebuild anyway after numerous wars and such. And very few countries (I assume China has as much if not more; certainly no European nation) have anything near the volume of physical infrastructure the USA has in place, most of which hasn’t changed much over the decades (note – this isn’t about quality, just sheer size/amount).
I could see us switching under a government stimulus program, but I can’t honestly see businesses willing to pony up that kind of cash on their own – and if they aren’t willing, they’ll prevent Congress from passing something to force the issue.
chigau (本当) says
serendipitydawg
“…with a bit of shortening.”
If you bought them a little looser you wouldn’t need the lubricant.
Richard Austin says
… I should add that I think we should change to metric, and that I think it would have been far easier in the 70’s than it is today. And perhaps the cost isn’t as high as some proclaimed, but it is still going to be massively expensive, and business is still going to fight it tooth and nail unless it’s subsidized.
I also didn’t intend the comment about countries being forced to rebuild as a way of dismissing the damage they endured. I hope no one takes it as such.
Katherine Lorraine, Chaton de la Mort says
@chigau:
See, the problem with bum-padded underwear is that, to put it bluntly, you don’t have the padding when you’re not wearing the underwear – if you catch my drift. It’s the same kind of issue I have with my breastforms. They’re gone as soon as I take them off – though my body may have the illusion of how I wish it did, it’s not actually what I look like. I can’t have sex and look like a woman at the same time.
@serendipitydawg:
I used to have my principles, but I lost them gambling. XD
ahs ॐ says
Antiochus Epiphanes,
I’m defending the wide use of irrational, and I don’t see anyone clearly objecting to this. The only person who brought it up, as far as I can see, was Caine, and I do not read Caine as actually objecting, only as bringing to my attention what she saw as a potential difficulty. I hope she will clarify if I misunderstood her.
I notice no explicit argument to this effect, and the only implicit arguments I can detect are a false dichotomy—that if a label can arguably be used accurately, it is therefore not an insult (this faggot assures you it ain’t necessarily so)—and an unrealistically sophisticated ontology.
And I don’t believe the latter distinction is any more real than to hate the sin but love the sinner. You knock down the distinction on your own:
Labeling the ideas as insane leads very quickly to labeling the person as such. We should expect that this distinction will collapse under the weight of real-world use; folks conceptualize insane ideas as coming from insane people. Too fine a point indeed: I’d call it zero-dimensional.
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There really are insane ideas.
One example I’m fond of is the belief that the television is talking about or to you in particular, not just everyone generally.
Another is the Capgras delusion, the belief that someone familiar to you has been replaced by a visually identical or nearly identical impostor.
These are what insane ideas are really like. We should be conscious that these are the sort of ideas we’re comparing another idea to when we call it insane.
Consider some other ideas that are perhaps equally irrational, like beliefs in Austrian economics. (The latter may be more irrational, if Austrian economics are a mathematical nonstarter in all possible worlds, because it’s at least possible that the television really is talking about you.)
Belief in Austrian economics spreads because healthy brains are functioning normally: people are sharing a meme about how the world works, and it is a catchy meme because it speaks very simply to the widespread interests in moral desert, who has earned what for their work, who is a freeloader. There are social institutions dedicated to spreading the meme, praising and in some cases employing those who are particularly successful at doing so.
Now, this belief is surely destructive. And some people—not Friedman, but some others—appear to be attracted to it because they are malicious.
I think this is where the temptation to call it insane comes from. There are many irrational ideas which we do not call insane; I think they tend to be those which are not destructive. Using the term insane helps clue the listener in to the danger.
This is objectionable in itself, though. In the better world we want, insanity should not be conceptualized as especially dangerous. So we shouldn’t try to point to danger by talking about insanity.
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Well, you could try not being a crank about it. If you’re convinced the medical community is in denial of your
cold fusionunconventional wisdom, you should get into the field and get your research peer-reviewed. Alternatively, you could STFU.What you’re doing right now is in effect arguing for the legitimacy of any crank to call anything mental illness and defend that claim by whining about professional conventionality.
I love ya, AE, but I think you’re approaching 0.2 timecubes.
PZ Myers says
Hilarity on Sb Pharyngula: Shiloh made a sockpuppet.
Walton says
In Britain, we use an eclectic mix of metric and imperial. On the one hand, most people measure their height in feet and inches, and their weight in stone and pounds (not just pounds as Americans do; one stone = fourteen pounds). And road distances are still measured in miles, and speed limits in miles per hour. On the other hand, we now tend to use metres for short distances, and goods in shops are (by virtue of EU standardization) sold in metric quantities; petrol is sold in litres, for instance, and flour in 500-gram packs. (Though in some other cases the actual quantities sold have not changed; supermarkets simply started selling 0.568-litre-bottles of milk, rather than pint-bottles, for instance.) The science and engineering sector, of course, has been using metric for a long time. And on temperature there’s a generational divide; in my school we used Celsius exclusively, so I can’t understand Fahrenheit temperatures, but my parents’ generation were used to using both systems.
Of course, things were really complicated, by all accounts, in the days of the old pre-decimal currency (which I’m far too young to remember). Shillings, ha’pennies, farthings, half-crowns and so on.
chigau (本当) says
Richard Austin
Do you think all the cars exported to the US from “metric” countries are made with Imperial measurements?
Any auto mechanic who is still in business has two sets of wrenches.
First Approximation says
Hehe.
serendipitydawg (one headed, mutant spawn of Echidna) says
@chigau (本当)
It’s a good job I didn’t actually get that until I had swallowed my tea…
One thing I have noticed is that there is a wild variation in the leg length of jeans targeted at youth. The latest pair only had about 1″ chopped off to fit my somewhat short stature, whereas the previous pair needed to lose around 3″.
I guess there are parents who, like cicely, yearn for some consistency in sizing.
Stop press: the latest lot are actually labelled 11-12 years, so they are obviously shorter than the equivalent 13 year olds. Perhaps it will become common for 10 year olds to need a 26″ waist and I will finally get jeans that don’t need any alteration at all XD
chigau (本当) says
Katherine Lorraine
Yeah. I was only considering the buying of clothing that fits.
chigau (本当) says
re Shiloh
On the same thread that got xe banned!
Genius!!!11!!!
Richard Austin says
chigau:
I know this is true in Los Angeles – we see more “imports” (even though many are actually made in the US) than “domestics”.
But in my travels through various parts of the US – especially in the south and midwest – I still recall seeing places that only handle domestic repairs. For example, even seeing a Japanese automobile on the road in North Carolina was a rarity.
So, I admit to a lack of hard info, but I think it’s somewhere between “everyone” and “no one”. Regardless, that’s probably the least significant issue, financially, since your average auto mechanic doesn’t have a congressman on speed dial, whereas CEOs at Ford or Dodge likely do.
Richard Austin says
(Butting in on the clothes conversation because I’m here and slacking anyway…)
I bought a pair of 32″ waist pants. They’re loose on me. I measured them with a tape measure. Buttoned, they’re 34″ around.
I compared this to an older pair of pants I have, which are also labelled 32″. They’re 32″ around.
I hate (some) clothing manufacturers.
Walton says
And yeah, I don’t agree with AE’s stance. Of course many people – perhaps all people, somewhere down the line – hold and express some beliefs which you and I would perceive to be irrational and harmful. People, even (perhaps especially) highly intelligent and socially-functional people, are susceptible to wishful thinking, confirmation bias, cherry-picking, and a great many other cognitive errors and fallacies. Most people are wrong about something, and most people engage in some form of irrational thought or behaviour in some aspect of their lives.
But we do not, and should not, label all such behaviours as “mental illness”; such a usage would dilute the term to the point where it becomes meaningless. Of course there’s an inevitably subjective and value-laden component in our analysis of what a “normal” human mind looks like, and which deviations from that norm should be labelled as “ill” or “disordered”. But in order to meaningfully label someone “mentally ill”, we need some objective agreed-upon diagnostic criteria, beyond “That person has done or said something with which I disagree”. Disagreeing with a consensus view about politics or religion is not a mental illness; holding an inaccurate factual belief is not a mental illness; being ignorant about a particular subject is not a mental illness. Indeed, I’d go so far as to say that equating “wrong” or “bad” with “insane” is a dangerous road; don’t forget the Soviet practice of labelling dissidents as “mentally ill” and detaining them in psychiatric hospitals, or the coercive “treatment program” in A Clockwork Orange (which was not such a far-fetched dystopia at the time it was written).
Of course, some people do have a recognized mental illness that manifests in the opinions they express. But it does not follow that everyone who is ever wrong about anything, even grievously and irrationally so, is ipso facto mentally ill.
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
T-Rex (Shiloh)
I doubt that even people who agree with Shi-Rex could say that he had any good arguments.
Lynna, OM says
‘Tis the season when mormons face a tithing settlement conversation with their Bishop.
They all attend a meeting in which the question of their being “worthy” by having paid a full tithing is considered, and documented.
To make this even worse this year, the First Presidency (present prophet/seer/revelator and his two advisors) issued a letter encouraging, nay demanding, more extra tithing on top of the usual 10%. The First Presidency usually takes advantage of the holiday season by demanding something, and this year their letter to all the sheeple put the squeeze on regarding Fast Offerings.
Here are some comments from ex-mormons, jack mormons, and church members who are forced by family to attend the corporation’s guilt fests.
Pteryxx says
Katherine Lorraine: At the risk of revealing way too much about myself… in my (very limited) experience, some of that might be counter-able with creative tailoring and tactile illusion. (SO many craft skills I need to learn…)
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
Watch The Sunrise-Cassandra Wilson
Harvest Moon-Cassandra Wilson
You Don’t Know What Love Is-Cassandra Wilson
Lynna, OM says
Christopher Hitchens has a new article in Slate that talks about Republican candidates actually benefitting from their gaffes.
The Sailor says
Tweeting Kansas Teen Gets Apology from Gov. Brownback, Her Following Soars
[…]
She’s received an overwhelming amount of support, says sister Olivia, and her twitter followers have jumped to 6,221 in the past week, nearly double that of Brownback’s.
[…]
Lynna, OM says
The Sailor @667: The amazing thing about that infamous tweet, which was also covered on NPR this morning, is that the wording is so mild.
With a name like “Brownback” I kept expecting to hear that some sort of rude sexual comment had been made, but while one could construe “he sucked” to be sexual, the tweet was really sort of general and not really offensive.
So Brownback’s team has apologized for overreacting. Good.
The fact that a political candidate thinks he can demand “respect” from high schools students does not auger well for our society, nor for the issue of free speech.
Katherine Lorraine, Chaton de la Mort says
@Pteryxx:
Still doesn’t solve the latter problem. I know that tailoring and illusion will help at first, but the problem is more resolved to the fact that when naked, I look nothing like my internal image of myself. I’m the wrong gender.
Lynna, OM says
I like this excerpt from the article in Slate about the teenaged tweeter who offended Sam Brownback:
That’s a good analysis of the situation. And I like the reminder about Brownback’s C Street Family connections.
These guy all think they should be in control of all female organs.
Sili says
If this is not proof of life after death, I don’t know what it is!
Lynna, OM says
Another quote from the Slate article about Brownback’s reaction:
linkage
Pteryxx says
@ Katherine Lorraine: Yeah, I sympathize… I might even understand, a bit. What I meant to put forward was, one doesn’t necessarily have to take everything *off* to have sex. Sometimes, sex involves putting things *on*. I apologize if I’m sounding condescending and you already know what I’m getting at. (Internet is forever, sigh.) I just hate to let intimacy problems go un-advised if I think I could possibly help.
pelamun says
random etymology of the day:
the English verb warp (as in “warp drive”), is cognate with German werfen “throw”, and Swedish värpa “lay eggs”.
ahs ॐ says
It most definitely is when followed by #heblowsalot. I was really hoping for something I could support here.
Homophobic crap.
A porcupine on both their houses!
Katherine Lorraine, Chaton de la Mort says
@Pteryxx:
Ohh, yes I see what you mean. Although admittedly I’ve been dry in that sense I suppose if things were to come to it, I would likely just refuse to remove everything. (Bra or top, for example.) I just wish I wouldn’t have to rely on trickery and illusion to look how I wish I were perceived.
Lynna, OM says
It’s the end of an era. Chad Hardy, the guy who was excommunicated from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and refused a diploma from BYU for having created a calendar featuring bare-chested mormon male missionaries has announced that the 2012 calendar will be his last.
http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/news/52998184-78/calendar-church-hardy-mormon.html.csp?page=1
Regretfully, there is only one photo accompanying this story.
From the readers comments section:
Mormon comment:
Antiochus Epiphanes says
ahs:
The difference between the Capgras delusion (pathological) and the belief in transubstantiation (non-pathological) is environment. To call one a mental illness and not the other strikes me as inconsistent.
I suppose I hadn’t equated the more neutral term “mentally ill” with “insane”, but had always considered “insanity” to mean something more along the lines of “harmful irrationality”. When I type it out, I can see how flawed my conception of that word is. You know that I am naïve about these things.
That wasn’t my point at all.
If I am walking down the street dragging my left leg behind me, an observer need not be a licensed physician to infer that something is wrong with my leg. That doesn’t mean that the observer knows why my leg doesn’t seem to be functioning or how to fix it.
My point was that conventional delusions (belief in transubstantiation) are no more rational than those considered to be pathological (Capgras). One could say with equal weight of evidence that something is wrong with brain function of people holding either delusion. I don’t need a medical degree to know this. I’m not sure why one condition is labeled as is “insane” and the other isn’t, although I suspect that a delusion that is the result of acculturation is somehow less pathological than one that isn’t.
Walton:
No. But I don’t understand what criteria need to be met to label one’s condition as “mental illness” versus “grieviously and irrationally wrong**”. It would seem that “harm” isn’t necessarily a condition.
I am not invested in retention of the word “insane” to refer to terribly irrational ideas. It is a usage that is easily enough abandoned. Given how little I understand clinical psychology, and how clearly blind to my own privilege I am***, I should probably STFU now.
**I supposed we should include “with good reasons not to be”
***This is not intended to be sarcastic.
StarStuff! Because f**k you, that's why says
I had the worst night’s sleep last night. I woke up 3 hours after I fell asleep because I was in so much pain. My leg hurts sometimes and last night is the worst it’s been in almost two years. It was so bad I was crying. All I could do was hobble to the bathroom to take a hot bath. I really should find a doctor for this.
Pteryxx says
@ Katherine Lorraine: Well, in my viewpoint, it’s sad to hear you say “refuse to remove”. What you want and need just IS; it shouldn’t be a point of contention. But I’m really, really lucky to have a supportive partner, so neither of us cares about holding the other to our own concept of their body. (…sentence fail…) Putting things on for sex is part of the fun; it’s a safe place, or should be.
I hear that, oh do I.
Antiochus Epiphanes says
Oh. And also this:
Not at all. But you did address this as being literally a point (having no dimensions). A label applied accurately can still be an insult; we are in total agreement there, and that is not what I meant. Saying that an idea is irrational is insulting to the idea, but not to the person holding it. Or in my mind should be. One of the difficulties that I encounter is when I say that an idea is irrational in meat-space, this is often interpreted as saying anyone holding that idea is irrational in toto. I often give insult when I had no intention of doing so, precisely on account of this interpretation.
So when you tell me that what I’ve written is illogical or wrong or misguided, I am not insulted. When you tell me that I am being a crank, I do interpret that as an insult even if it is one that I have earned.
Rey Fox says
Not that I should have to tell anyone here, but don’t look at any of the comments on any of the stories about the Kansas tweeter. Unless you really need your daily dose of pearl-clutching and misogyny.
StarStuff! Because f**k you, that's why says
@ Rey
Are the comments really that bad? I guess I’ll trust you on this, because I’d rather not read that kind of shit.
Nerd of Redhead, Dances OM Trolls says
Gee, considering that the automobile companies are world-wide these days, I know that isn’t the case. My Ford Probes have a considerable amount of metric nuts and bolts about them, since their partner for that model was Mazda. Every mechanics shop has both metric and US sets, as they work on US, Japanese, Korean, and European cars. The problem is normal folks who learned the next town is 25 miles away, and don’t want to learn it is now considered 40 km, or the speed limit is now 90 kmph, not 55 mph.
Rey Fox says
Depends on where you are. I first looked at CNN.com and then the Huffington Post. And while most people do support her, there’s enough “She’s a disrespectful brat that wasn’t raised right” and “she’s ugly” to make one despair for humanity.
Pteryxx says
Measurements really do seem to be learned with the brain’s language module, IMHO. I’ve noticed (USA and science-trained) that I have an intuitive grasp of how much a gallon or a cup or tablespoon is while handling food, but I can’t do metric there. Conversely, I think of lab things like isopropanol or agar in terms of ml’s and liters, but can’t convert them back. (And in my head, one pound = one rat. *lifts produce* “How many rats does this weigh…”)
ahs ॐ says
AE
There are differences you aren’t thinking to look for:
1) Transubstantiation is transmitted between healthy brains.
Capgras is not transmissible; even if the sufferer of Capgras is in fact a CIA agent working undercover overseas, and he convinces a fellow agent that one of his contacts really has been replaced by an impostor, the fellow agent is not likewise going to experience the sensation of Capgras. The delusional person looks at the impostor and continually senses that something is different, because the delusional person is not processing faces normally. The fellow agent is only mistaken, having been convinced that the delusional agent must have a good reason for the belief.
2) Psychotic symptoms have a much more compelling “weight” in the mind.
You can raise your children to believe that a secret cabal controls the world and are trying to destroy People Like Us. They may believe this into adulthood, but will typically assign as much importance to it as the average American worries about the ChiComs. Sure, when you bring it up, the kids will think about it, but otherwise they’ll be thinking about how to get you to buy them cars, how to get noticed by their crushes, etc.
Someone experiencing a first psychotic episode, who invents the same ideas about a secret cabal, will be thinking about them all the damn time. The problem will intrude into almost every other thought.
The “believer” in transsubstantiation usually doesn’t ideate on it even once a week, not even when they’re chewing the host. The ideological justifications are called up only when the person is interrogated about it.
The person experiencing Capgras is worrying about it 100% of the time that they’re in the presence of the impostor, and much of the time they’re not. It is a continually compelling fixation.
This is slightly wrong, and reading between the lines of Dawkins will show how: from an evolutionary perspective, it is somewhat justified to believe what your parents tell you. This is not the end of the matter. But it really is more justified than believing a symptom like Capgras that just pops into your head one day, seemingly from out of nowhere.
This presupposes that there must be something wrong with a brain in order to hold rationally unfounded false beliefs. This is entirely in contradiction to memetics.
Healthy brains, functioning normally, pass around complete bullshit all day long, because they’re socially rewarded for it. There are reasons we should not be surprised by this, and I’ve heard no plausible reason we should expect otherwise.
Carlie says
*hugs* I know you don’t need a pep talk about how we all use illusion to look different than we do naked, so just hugs.
Although, trickery isn’t the word I would use. It’s simply good use of accessories. Some people use push-up bras, some people put more stuff into the bras. Just different parts on the same continuum.
StarStuff! Because f**k you, that's why says
@ Rey
The “She’s a disrespectful brat that wasn’t raised right” part really pisses me off. It really just shows how stupid the person saying it is. It basically means that “she’s just a little girl who shouldn’t talk back because she doesn’t know what she’s talking about, so she should just STFU.” As someone who was a very opinionated young woman (and still is, but now most people consider me an adult), I was told similar things and hearing it still really pisses me off (especially because it usually comes from someone who’s exceedingly ignorant about what they’re telling me to shut up about).
cicely, unheeded prophetess of the Equine Apocalypse says
My, my, my, but this sounds familiar. Is it the result of an injury, or just Sucky Design?
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“How many football-fields long is that?”
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StarStuff! Because f**k you, that's why says
@ cicely
It’s not injury. I’ve had leg pain on and off for as long as I can remember. I used to think it was growing pains, but I’m a little old for that now (I haven’t gotten taller in at least 3 years or more). Beyond that, I’ve got no idea what it is.
I’m kind of nervous about going to a doctor about it. Random leg pain is kind of a vague and subjective thing, and I don’t want to be told I’m a hypochondriac or given some bullshit non-diagnosis.
Caine, Fleur du Mal says
ahs, you read me right. No problems.
cicely, unheeded prophetess of the Equine Apocalypse says
(Of course, a rat that can be measured in football-fields is one big rat.)
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Caine, Fleur du Mal says
StarStuff:
Oh ffs, stop whining about it here and go see a goddamn doctor already. There are all manner of things which can cause leg pain. (No, do not follow this up with a stupid “Really? What are things that can cause leg pains?).
Go see a doctor.
Pteryxx says
StarStuff – re random leg pain, if it traces a path down the back of your thigh and calf, it might be sciatica (nerve pinching in the lower spine) which I had once. *shrug* Some kinds of leg pain have explanations.
cicely, unheeded prophetess of the Equine Apocalypse says
(In fact, I would go so far as to say that it would be a plague of Rat.)
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Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
In the Sam Brownback thread, I found out that I am self rightious and a PC goon.
Often, I hate the people who are supposed to be my allies.
Pteryxx says
…or what Caine said. >_>
ChasCPeterson says
Often, it’s probably mutual.
The human condition and all that.
Rey Fox says
What’s that in Danzigs?
ahs ॐ says
This is what I regard as unrealistically sophisticated ontology. It takes some degree of philosophical consideration to learn to make this distinction. It’s not exceptionally difficult—we typically explain it by sharing a Jay Smooth video—but it’s not trivial; that’s precisely why we rely on the video.
You just can’t assume that a general audience is accustomed to making this distinction. Clever people pass by Pharyngula all the time who still need it explained to them.
And if the audience isn’t already accustomed, introducing it on the spot is going to strike them as a dishonest pile of paralipsis: “I’m not saying you’re a racist; I’m just saying that your rhetoric is racist” sure does sound like a clever way of saying you’re a racist.
That’s not to say it isn’t a philosophically legitimate distinction. We use it for a good reason, to talk about internally-motivated vs externally-indoctrinated racism, for instance. But most people don’t take it well, because hardly anyone outside of critical theory talks this way unless they’re deliberately speaking backhanded.
For this reason, I think you just can’t realistically expect anyone to take it as you intend. Paralipsis is also something they may rationally suspect. If you’re using this kind of distinction when you don’t need to, I can hardly blame the listener for their interpretation. And I don’t see how saying “your ideas are insane, but you’re not insane” is going to come up in the discussion of power structures, the way “your ideas are sexist, but you’re not sexist” might.
I would generally expect the latter to not be paralipsis, because I understand why it would be otherwise necessary, but I have no strong reason to expect the former not to be paralipsis.
StarStuff! Because f**k you, that's why says
@ Caine
Yes, let me just grab my wallet and walk to the emergency room right now [/snark].
I can’t just get up and go to the doctor. I first have to figure out what kind of doctor to see, then I have to find a doctor who accepts my insurance (I live out of network), and then I have to find a time when I’m free and when the person who could give me a ride there is free.
When I’ve figured those things out, I’ll go see a doctor. But until then, I’d like to share my experience with people here.
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
Subtle, Chas. Back to ignoring now.
Antiochus Epiphanes says
ahs
Thank you for the remediation. What you have written makes complete sense. I’m sorry to have made you write it twice, but I didn’t get it the first time*. If you catch me using the word “insane” when I mean “irrational”, kick my ass for it, because now I have it coming.
The NYT article is interesting in that it explains a recurrent problem that I have with one of my classes. I have engineered discussions/debates regarding science and public policy. I set up a formal debate, allowing students to choose a side to support, but also allowing students to switch sides periodically. Rather than learning from debate, they become more and more entrenched in their initial positions. Very rarely does an argument persuade a student to change their position, even when their initial position is more or less based in ignorance. This seems to me more like gamesmanship than dedication to getting a position right, and I find (or found, maybe) it frustrating because I didn’t understand why they were doing that. I need a different protocol.
*
chigau (本当) says
StarStuff
Seek professional medical advice.
No hemp-oil or acupuncture.
Caine, Fleur du Mal says
StarStuff:
All you’ve done is whine about how you should see a doctor. For the length of time you’ve been doing so, you could have easily done all the necessary things to see a doctor.
cicely, unheeded prophetess of the Equine Apocalypse says
Pteryxx:
My sciatica ran down the outside of the thigh and calf, flaring brightly at the outer ankle. It felt as if I could have done a detailed tracery of the branching nerves on my outer calf.
Turns out that it came of lying flat on my back at night, and sitting hunched forward in my chair at work…basically, flattening the curvature of my back. I try reallyreallyreally hard not to do that anymore.
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StarStuff! Because f**k you, that's why says
@ Caine
For the 30 minutes or so I’ve been talking about it I could have found a doctor, found a ride, and planned a visit? Wow, you must be way better at this than I am. Also, who says I haven’t been looking? I can multitask, you know.
@ chigau
As tempting as sticking sharp things into my body sounds, I’ll try to avoid it.
Rey Fox says
Jeez Caine, give her a break.
Janine, Clueless And Reactionary As Ever, OM, says
Caine, I also think that you should ease up on StarSfuff!
changeable moniker says
Lighter, left in rain,
still works, hurrah! Cigarettes,
not so much. *haz sad*
Yeah, I know, I’ll shut up for a bit. ;)
Antiochus Epiphanes says
ahs, 701
Heh.
My unnecessarily sophisticated ontology earned me plenty of punches in the face as a kid. For example:
CW*: Are you saying that I’m a liar?
Me: Not exactly, but what I am saying is that you are wrong. If you know that you are wrong, then you are lying. Now whether that makes you a liar…
And diplomacy broke down right about there.
Apparently, I still do this shit. I shouldn’t be allowed to interact with people ;)
*Identity withheld.
SallyStrange, Spawn of Cthulhu says
Good news, everybody!
No really, GOOD news!
I’ve gotten MANY emails from Threadizens in response to my plea for financial assistance. I apologize for taking several days to respond to them. I think I was experiencing some cognitive dissonance – on the one hand, I want $MONEY$, on the other hand I feel quite uncomfortable asking for, and accepting, help from relative strangers. So, procrastination kicked in (lack of sleep wasn’t helping either).
Anyway, I’m in the process of reading them all right now, and I’m setting up a paypal account so that those who want to use it can do that, and I’ll provide a physical address for those who prefer to use snail mail. I should have that done by tonight.
Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you! You have no idea how much this means to me, and how much it’s going to help out!
Giliell, the woman who said Good-bye to Kitty says
Good evening
*hmmm*
Made gingerbread with my friends and the kids.
Now I’ve got gingerbread-unicorns, gingerbread-dragons, gingerbread vikings, gingerbread-bats, gingerbread-wolves, gingerbread-hippos….
Yes, I like cookies cutters, why’re you asking?
I’m a bit short on angels, though.
But it lead to a short discussion with my totally not believing in god but very deeply believing in the RCC* friend (yes, weird, I know). She said I was inconsequent since I’m such a firm atheist to celebrate all those days.
Well, I’m going to send her Tim Minchin. Told her that I firmly believe in celebrations, gifts, good food and time with my family.
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Clothes:
Well, I should just invest 20 bucks in a tailored pattern and make the fucking things myself, but they’re so boring. The little time I have for sewing I want to make stuff that’s a bit out of the ordinary.
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Meassures:
I can deal well with inches, thanx to sewing. I’ll often switch between cm and inches, depending on what’s more convenient at the moment
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Sally Strange
Since I don’t have your email: please drop me a line at giliellÄTyahooDOTde when you find the time.
And now off to bed…
*She will always excuse anything bad with “that particular priest” or “it’s not that bad” or “you mustn’t judge them by the most conservative elements”.
Carlie says
Oh look – Gymboree was selling onesies that were either blue and said “smart like Daddy” or pink and said “pretty like Mommy”.
*headdesk*
link
Ing says
Not picking on you but since you believe in rehabilitation over punishment and all (which I largely agree with) in a perfect world SHOULDN’T anti-social and irrational behaviors be treated as the product of mental illness or emotional damage and be given treatment?
Ing says
…or products of ignorance to be treated with education.
Carlie says
Sorry, the dad ones were green. With the little guy a clone of the dad.
Dr. Audley Z. Darkheart OM, liar and scoundrel says
Drive by:
I had no idea that porcupines were so fucking cute.
A. R says
Spent some time watching kid’s shows this weekend with my nephew. I was rather shocked at the stringent deception of gender roles and subtle sexism in many of them. Never would have seen it before I started reading Pharyngula.
StarStuff! Because f**k you, that's why says
@ A.R
What shows did you watch?
A. R says
Phineas and Ferb was one of them, couldn’t name the rest.
Antiochus Epiphanes says
No, because they aren’t those things in the context of our discussion*.
Yes, because that’s what they are.
*A position that I decided to endorse not long ago.
Carlie says
A.R. – show him Avatar the last airbender, if he hasn’t come across it yet. It’s fantastic, and even passes the Bechdel test, and is just generally kickass. (NO NOT THAT MOVIE ARGH. NO ALSO NOT THE MOVIE BASED ON THE CARTOON DOUBLE ARGH)
Sili says
For the longest time I was puzzled that people were some excited about Avatar coming out, since I’d heard nothing but derision for the film version of Avatar.
Stupid Cameron.
StarStuff! Because f**k you, that's why says
@ A.R
I haven’t heard much about that cartoon other than the fact that it’s pretty annoying.
Nutmeg says
Hi TET!
I’ve been a lurker and occasional anonymous commenter here for almost a year now, and I was just considering de-lurking permanently when the server was upgraded and I lost access. This is the first time I’ve found a computer that will actually access FtB.
I’m hoping for some assistance figuring out why my computer can’t see any posts since the upgrade. I’m sure someone else has already figured out common problems. If you could point me in that direction it would be great!
I’m running Firefox. Neither the most recent version nor 3.6.24 works with FtB. Google Chrome doesn’t work either. I’ve tried switching DNS – nothing, even with clearing caches, etc. But, for no apparent reason, my parents’ computer works fine with the site (that’s how I’m commenting). The two computers run off the same router and have the same add-ons installed in the same version of Firefox. So I’m thinking it’s something specific to my computer that’s the problem. I can’t access FtB from my work network either. If it matters, I’m in Canada.
Thanks in advance for the help!
Sili says
The only good thing about the foot as a unit of length is that it’s pretty much a nanosecond.
A. R says
StarstuffL I would have to agree with you from what I’ve seen of it.
A. R says
Damn, a sacrifice to Tpyos!
Carlie: thanks for the suggestions!
ahs ॐ says
cicely,
Do you sleep differently now?
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Antiochus Epiphanes,
Simple: randomly assign everyone to their first position, require them to switch positions halfway through, and then write about what their own thoughts are at the end and how they came to them.
Complex: (I’m not sure if random or free choice is better in this case, but) once their first positions are determined, assign them to small groups of 2 pro and 2 con, or 3 pro and 3 con. Require that they come in with at least 3-5 arguments already prepared for their position, at least 1 of which they believe to be unusual. Have them try to convince each other, and then at the end require them to try to collaborate on a majority opinion, or write a concurring or dissenting opinion which explains why the majority opinion is either insufficient or downright wrong.
Antiochus Epiphanes says
Unless you’re a tardigrade.
ahs ॐ says
Er, that should be:
(try to collaborate on a majority opinion, (and optionally write a concurring opinion which explains why the majority opinion is insufficient)) or (write a dissenting opinion which explains why the majority opinion is downright wrong)
Antiochus Epiphanes says
ahs
Your complex protocol is tantalizing, and seems feasible given the class size and meeting structure. I will try this (next fall when I teach it again—I filed it in my course log). Thank you again.
SC (Salty Current), OM says
I might be confused. I was reading this as “He totally blows,” but I don’t have any knowledge of other context (that’s just how I would read teenspeak). Are you reading it as “He blows a lot” like in terms of frequency?
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Yeah. Leave that to the pharmaceutical companies!
Richard Austin says
Nutmeg:
Were you accessing FTB on every computer you’ve tried and failed on before the upgrade? Did you, perchance, modify the hosts file on those machines?
Assuming you’re in windows, go to C:\Windows\System32\Drivers\ETC\ and open up “hosts” with a text editor (like Notepad).
If you have any like in there that mentions freethoughtblogs.com, just put a “#” in front of it or delete the line. Like, change:
to
and save it. don’t rename it, just save.
If you have that line or something similar, that’s probably your issue.
ahs ॐ says
Antiochus Epiphanes: no problem.
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I’m reading it like you are.
It’s the co-incidence of suck and blow. Had it been “told him he sucked and should die in a fire” I would think it generic.
The Sailor says
IRT measurements, the US made great headway in the 70’s, car speedometers and state road signs were in MPH and KPH. The metric system was taught in grade schools. It was obviously superior, (x10, x10, x10 is Easy!), and then old fogies in Congress shut it down.
Now every mechanic, whether sailing, aviating or auto-ing has to have 2 sets of tools. (Even if your primary systems is Standard (USA, USA!) the accessories might very well be metric. The burden shifted to individuals.
The Jeebus moment should have happened when a spacecraft sent to Mars failed due to specs, but Nooooo, the wrong lesson was learned.
If we’d not let politics involved we’d be on the metric system by now and no one would care.
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Caine, as a community we seem to be based in problem solving, I like that. But it took me years to learn that sometimes people aren’t looking for a solution but just a chance to vent.
That too is a valid interaction. I don’t think it was right to complain about StarStuff complaining. And going to a Dr can be a difficult choice in the US.
But you know all this.
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To all; we can still use bonkers, right!?
Sometimes we seem to get seriously sidetracked by PC language here; it is an important part of why we’re mainly civil to each other and we’re generally open to examining our views/language and changing them if even an emotional, much less logical, reason is given. But FFS, insults are supposed to be insulting, and even the Shakespeare ones had a lot of progeny-ism in them.
It seems to me there is a line, but I’ll be damned if I can figure out where it is. (See Potter v. Obscenity)
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I had to train myself to sleep on alternating sides. On my tummy I can’t breathe, on my back I can’t walk for awhile the next morning. I do sometimes shift between those and a 45 deg angle against the wall face down and face up.
Why yes, I do have wake up frequently and have insomnia, why do you ask?
Father Ogvorbis, OMoron says
Sorry for the dump yesterday. Won’t happen again. Whouldn’t have vented on y’all. Sorry.
SC (Salty Current), OM says
Huh…
Anyway, I just popped back to the other thread and don’t care to continue the discussion here. Just curious if people were reading that differently, so thanks.
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In other news, Ms. Daisy Cutter called me an “animal rights zealot” on JT Eberhard’s mental illness thread. The only thing better than an ad hom is a totally irrelevant ad hom.
ahs ॐ says
Oh gods, there is a thread here about Brownback. I thought Janine was talking about the Slate thread or something.
ahs ॐ says
By golly, SC, this here blog only has room for one animal rights zealot, and I planted my flag years ago.
StarStuff! Because f**k you, that's why says
@ SC
Why? What was the context for calling you that?
The Sailor says
Ogvorbis, I didn’t think you did anything wrong, I see nothing to apologize for. This is the place to vent and you are among friends, where better?
SC (Salty Current), OM says
Fine, then, I’ll return to my Kropotkin worship and general corporate bashing, and will try to ease off the rabid militancy on the animal threads.
ahs ॐ says
Some people do use bonkers to express that they’re feeling symptomatic; it’s informative without being quite so frightening.
I’ll still bite your face off if I think you’re misdiagnosing someone.
Insults are supposed to be insulting, indeed. Which is why mentally ill people often prefer not to be used as insults.
It’s insulting to be called a faggot by a hetero stranger. It’s a very effective insult. So don’t worry; if you want to hurt somebody, your arsenal is full.
SallyStrange, Spawn of Cthulhu says
This octopus landborne escape video is far cooler than the one PZ posted before.
“We caught this Octopus in a shrimp trap here in Alaska. It had crawled in through a 3 inch opening and terrorized our catch of spot prawns, killing and eating several of them, and then, attached itself to the bait jar and unscrewed the lid to open for dessert of prepared shrimp bait pellets! We decided to let this brilliant creature go (option was to eat it! …yum!) as I respected it’s intelligence and genius. We set it on the deck and let it “escape” on it’s own… Cool fun with a sea creature!”
Also, foxes on a trampoline.
Thanks to Janine for posting the porcupine video.
The Laughing Coyote (Papio Cynocephalus) says
That is really cool, SallyStrange.
Octopi are probably the most likeable of invertebrates, IMO.
ahs ॐ says
Aw. I was really just fronting because I’ve been slacking lately. :(
*doves cry*
Ariaflame says
Would it be also unacceptable to say that someone went Bursar?
Thanks for link chigau, and I hadn’t known that the USA had had a stab at the car thing. I have a memory from a visit in 2008 that the UK is slowly working on it.
Yes it is individuals making the changes but in any endeavour that involves a lot of people changing the same thing at the same time the logistics get tricky. Especially for things they do a certain way all the time rather than infrequently.
It is for similar reasons that the most commonly used words in a language tend to be the irregular ones in terms of grammar, conjugation etc.
StarStuff! Because f**k you, that's why says
@ Sally
Those foxes are so freaking cute! I want to cuddle with one, but I can’t because they’re foxes. I guess I’ll just have to settle for my cat.
SC (Salty Current), OM says
It was a discussion of antidepressants and also the stigma of psychological problems. I was responding to factual claims about both and also to the factual nature of some hominem claims about skeptics of antidepressants (they were fallacious but also wrong). In response came more ad homs, including the one about my being an animal rights zealot.* It was just so random and so transparently meant to poison the well that I found it funny.
*I have posted about animal rights, and possibly would have been a Zealot had I been alive a couple of millennia ago.
:)
The Laughing Coyote (Papio Cynocephalus) says
BTW, My favorite octopus: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t-LTWFnGmeg&feature=related
StarStuff! Because f**k you, that's why says
@ SC
That sounds quite silly. I was thinking that animal rights was at least tangentially related to the discussion, but I guess not.
The Sailor says
ahs, of all the things I wrote about, you wanted to go there, and extrapolate.
Tell you and everyone else, make a list of things I’m not allowed to say here. Go ahead, start it, everyone else will chime in and I’ll never, ever use them again here.
StarStuff! Because f**k you, that's why says
I’m not going to lie, this made me laugh.
Nutmeg says
Richard Austin:
That’s absolutely the problem! The computer doesn’t want to let me save it, though. It says I don’t have permission to save in that location, even though I should be the administrator for that computer. Any suggestions?
Nutmeg says
Never mind, I got it! Thanks for the help!
Katherine Lorraine, Chaton de la Mort says
Bleh I’m sweaty and itchy and sneeezy! I built a bookshelf… and now I feel a weird combo of sweat and itch cause of dust from moving books and building the friggin’ thing. But it looks nice, and things are sufficiently out of the way that Snip will not get them anymore. I can have a little peace at night now!
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Speaking of books. I tossed a few. I know, should donate them, but they were all the right wing nutjob books I used to have, some devotionals that I’d had left over, and my Bible. Yup, threw it out in the trash. Now it’s among who knows what kind of junk.
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@Carlie:
Yea I know. Just still kinda sucks that I can’t look how I want all the time *sigh, accepts hugs*
cicely, unheeded prophetess of the Equine Apocalypse says
The Husband’s balls are saved!!! Hurrah!!! Instant mood lightener!
*dismounts from anxiety roller coaster*
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Hi, Nutmeg; welcome in!
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Oh, hell yes. The pain was…quite impressive…even by my gold standard for pain (gall bladder attack). Nowadays, I sleep on one side or another, with a stiff pillow at my back to prevent my rolling onto my back in my sleep. The inconvenience is an acceptible price for the sciatica’s absence.
I’d like to sleep on my stomach, which would probably be optimum from my back’s POV, but I’d probably drown.
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That’s how I read it, too. It never once occured to me that it referred to blowjobs in any way; and I’m dubious that phrases like “that blows chunks” have anything to do with ’em.
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I see TET as a venterable place.
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consciousness razor says
The Sailor:
As far as I’m concerned, you’re allowed to say anything. You’re free to be a totally bigoted asshole to anyone and everyone, including yourself if you so choose. Anyone else is likewise free to say anything in response.
So here’s my list of things you can’t say: _____
But that’s not really what this is about, is it?
changeable moniker says
@A. R: “Phineas and Ferb”
Now, now.
There’s Isabella. There’s also monkeys builing a treehouse, a volcano lair flooded by laundry bubbles, a giant tinfoil ball that destroys the eastern seaboard (not to mention the tri-state area), Perry’s over-land posting (“Perry Come Home”), and I haven’t even got to the boom-boom-inator.
There’s also Ain’t Got Rhythm.
Ing: I SPEAK FOR THE HIVEMIND GROUPTHINK says
@Sailor
You probably should just post as you feel you should and ignore people who want to derail to focus on that if you feel it’s not warranted. If it gets too bad you can use a kill file. I mean, other than someone constantly pointing it out and making the discussion about that there’s no real authority on what is appropriate or not. ahs or Janine, or Walton or me or whoever have no real authority to declare that regardless of how loudly we state our opinions.
Nerd of Redhead, Dances OM Trolls says
Dang, that was a WTF moment. Finally found the initial post well upthread. *Back to getting the holiday tree out of the garage rafters.*
ahs ॐ says
Yeah? I wanted to go there because that’s what I’ve already been talking about in this thread.
I really don’t give a shit about the metric system.
Just for you, Sailor, these are the words I’d like to see you never use:
for but nor yet or so either not neither both whether the if a no an while as though because after that since unless until where when why what who and how
Hopefully that’ll be sufficient.
PZ Myers says
NEW THREAD!