Hey, the “go bak 2 the kitchen u ugly bitch” is wrong. It is often grown men, of the frat-boy/dudebro variety, that like that. Twelve year olds don’t say that unless they have an older idiot to teach them that.
There ought to be a cool word for that. Like “bromentoring” or something.
Aureola Nominee, FCDsays
How about “bro-fo”?
barrypearsonsays
I too don’t know what feminism is! But I don’t pretend to. Instead I’m making stuff up:
I believe that everyone should have the ability to make informed choices, where they don’t unduly restrict the equivalent abilities of others.
“Ability” implies rights + law + support.
“Informed” implies education + access to information + access to analysis.
I want an operating policy that is independent of “man / woman”; “abled / disabled”; “straight / gay / transgendered / other”. Rather like Rawls’ “veil of ignorance”: we should be comfortable with the principles without concern about what role we will play.
glodsonsays
@Marcus Ranum: Inbrotrination? Assholimilation?
@Ophelia Benson: damn, I didn’t even think of the misogynistic women despite having recently had a discussion on Girl Writes What.
trucreepsays
Hahaha the BORG thing was pretty funny
Loftysays
Pierce R. Butler:
Cats say “please”?!?
Only if they have been properly indoctrinated in the Worship of Their Owners. Like mine are. Sad but true.
ShowMetheDatasays
have an older idiot to teach them that.
There ought to be a cool word for that. Like “bromentoring” or something.
dementoring
psanitysays
I would change “I am twelve” to “I wish I were twelve”. Or maybe, “I wish I were a baby, because boobies, and everybody would wait on me, and boobies.”
Kids, and babies, are quite nice. Adults who opt to revert to infancy are poor company.
And, of course cats say please. Sometimes nicely, and sometimes with icy threat-based diplomacy.
freemagesays
Dammit. I had already dropped Dilbert from my reading in part because of Adams’ idiotic blather on feminism (also because he’s obviously dried up whatever creativity he once had, but I still read lots of comics that would get cut if that was my only criteria for doing so–habit is a killer time-suck), and so I’d missed out on his rape-apologia. So when I saw this list, I was surprised that he got that particular entry. So I Googled, and found the column. It really was that bad, if not worse.
Cyranothe2ndsays
Scott Adams LOL
I am making my students read Scott Adams’ ‘Pegs and Holes’ article. Its an example of what NOT to do in academic discourse. They are really having fun taking it apart and making fun of it.
Happiestsadist, opener of the Crack of Doomsays
While I do ID as a feminist, I do kind of support the many trans* women (and non-binary people) who don’t because of that whole history of vicious transphobia that is still ongoing thing. Same as I support and understand that some women of colour don’t wanna stand under this umbrella because of the similarly awful history regarding race.
Aratina Cagesays
Very funny. 🙂
AndrewDsays
I thought that Cats were Felinists.
Matt Gilsonsays
Jezuz Fucking Christ, Just get a dick transplant O’FeelMeupBenson , you sexually confused angry cat lady.
sailor1031says
@3: Summer-the-little-stripey-cat just camps out by the empty food dish and looks hopeful. I know it means “feed me” – not sure if please is included – but at least she’s polite about it.
sailor1031says
Oh look – I just read post from Matt Gilson. Wow! Sounds just like an angry ten year old worrying about his size and his sexual orientation. Well done – a great Poe.
josesays
I very much doubt anti feminists have ever heard of Sheila Jeffreys. People who hate women hate lesbians the most.
She isn’t transphobic either.
Happiestsadist, opener of the Crack of Doomsays
You’re actually claiming Jeffreys isn’t transphobic? How the fuck do you figure?
josesays
Because I have read her book on the matter.
Happiestsadist, opener of the Crack of Doomsays
Then you agree that “”transsexualism should be seen as a violation of human rights.” ? That GRS should be banned? That gender identity is up for debate? That trans women are not women?
josesays
No, and I don’t think all sex is rape, either.
Happiestsadist, opener of the Crack of Doomsays
… Nice nonsequitur. How exactly are the above statements by Jeffreys not transphobic, though?
Jose: Sheila Jeffreys isn’t transphobic? Bull. Fucking. Shit. Why don’t you actually ask an actual trans* person? You know, like Autumn Sandeen?
Oh, and I’d love to see your citations on who misogynists “hate the most.” This isn’t Oppression Olympics, and being on one axis of oppression doesn’t automatically give a person empathy for people on another axis.
Am I in moderation? Because I just left Jose a comment linking to both RationalWiki and to a post on Pam’s House Blend by a trans* activist disputing his claim that Jeffreys is not transphobic.
Why are you linking me a wiki article as if I don’t know anything about her? I said I have read her book on the issue and there is more information there about what Sheila Jeffrey thinks than in some wiki. You should read it too.
And the other link is just some people who don’t want her at some conference. It happens a lot. What has that got to do with anything? Anyway, an excerpt… “encourage clients to take a more political approach to their situation and to realize that they can rebel against the constraints of a prescribed gender role, and relate to their own sex in their native bodies. “. Sounds like feminism to me. Full of good things.
Happiestsadist, opener of the Crack of Doomsays
Thans for mansplaining feminism, Jose. And no, the fact that she’s too dumb to tell gender roles, sex and gender identity apart does not “sound like feminism” to anyone who isn’t a TERF. She literally claims trans people are doing violence by existing.
Hey Ophelia, you know how I was mentioning good reasons why transfeminists stay the hell away from much of the mainstream rich white cis lady feminism? Assholes like this, and the fact that they usually do undisputed.
Jose, like Happiestsadist said, you do not get to tell trans* people what’s transphobic and what isn’t. You also don’t get to mansplain feminism to women (or female-assigned genderqueer folks like HS, for that matter).
Hey Ophelia, you know how I was mentioning good reasons why transfeminists stay the hell away from much of the mainstream rich white cis lady feminism? Assholes like this, and the fact that they usually do undisputed.
Seriously. Transfeminists don’t want to see their identities and lives up for debate among cis women any more than women in general want to see ours up for debate among men.
josesays
That you don’t want the affirmation of gender stereotypes up for debate is abundantly clear. Since I don’t get tell or do anything anymore, that will be all from this end.
glodson says
Hey, the “go bak 2 the kitchen u ugly bitch” is wrong. It is often grown men, of the frat-boy/dudebro variety, that like that. Twelve year olds don’t say that unless they have an older idiot to teach them that.
Ophelia Benson says
That’s very true. There are also a few (very odd) grown women who like that. Most of them spend an astonishing amount of time raging at me.
Pierce R. Butler says
Cats say “please”?!?
postman says
But feminism leads to the Borg. After all they have a queen. Misandry!!!!!!!!
In all seriousness, the Borg are much more sympathetic and likeable than all those cretins.
Marcus Ranum says
have an older idiot to teach them that.
There ought to be a cool word for that. Like “bromentoring” or something.
Aureola Nominee, FCD says
How about “bro-fo”?
barrypearson says
I too don’t know what feminism is! But I don’t pretend to. Instead I’m making stuff up:
I believe that everyone should have the ability to make informed choices, where they don’t unduly restrict the equivalent abilities of others.
“Ability” implies rights + law + support.
“Informed” implies education + access to information + access to analysis.
I want an operating policy that is independent of “man / woman”; “abled / disabled”; “straight / gay / transgendered / other”. Rather like Rawls’ “veil of ignorance”: we should be comfortable with the principles without concern about what role we will play.
glodson says
@Marcus Ranum: Inbrotrination? Assholimilation?
@Ophelia Benson: damn, I didn’t even think of the misogynistic women despite having recently had a discussion on Girl Writes What.
trucreep says
Hahaha the BORG thing was pretty funny
Lofty says
Pierce R. Butler:
Only if they have been properly indoctrinated in the Worship of Their Owners. Like mine are. Sad but true.
ShowMetheData says
dementoring
psanity says
I would change “I am twelve” to “I wish I were twelve”. Or maybe, “I wish I were a baby, because boobies, and everybody would wait on me, and boobies.”
Kids, and babies, are quite nice. Adults who opt to revert to infancy are poor company.
And, of course cats say please. Sometimes nicely, and sometimes with icy threat-based diplomacy.
freemage says
Dammit. I had already dropped Dilbert from my reading in part because of Adams’ idiotic blather on feminism (also because he’s obviously dried up whatever creativity he once had, but I still read lots of comics that would get cut if that was my only criteria for doing so–habit is a killer time-suck), and so I’d missed out on his rape-apologia. So when I saw this list, I was surprised that he got that particular entry. So I Googled, and found the column. It really was that bad, if not worse.
Cyranothe2nd says
Scott Adams LOL
I am making my students read Scott Adams’ ‘Pegs and Holes’ article. Its an example of what NOT to do in academic discourse. They are really having fun taking it apart and making fun of it.
Happiestsadist, opener of the Crack of Doom says
While I do ID as a feminist, I do kind of support the many trans* women (and non-binary people) who don’t because of that whole history of vicious transphobia that is still ongoing thing. Same as I support and understand that some women of colour don’t wanna stand under this umbrella because of the similarly awful history regarding race.
Aratina Cage says
Very funny. 🙂
AndrewD says
I thought that Cats were Felinists.
Matt Gilson says
Jezuz Fucking Christ, Just get a dick transplant O’FeelMeupBenson , you sexually confused angry cat lady.
sailor1031 says
@3: Summer-the-little-stripey-cat just camps out by the empty food dish and looks hopeful. I know it means “feed me” – not sure if please is included – but at least she’s polite about it.
sailor1031 says
Oh look – I just read post from Matt Gilson. Wow! Sounds just like an angry ten year old worrying about his size and his sexual orientation. Well done – a great Poe.
jose says
I very much doubt anti feminists have ever heard of Sheila Jeffreys. People who hate women hate lesbians the most.
She isn’t transphobic either.
Happiestsadist, opener of the Crack of Doom says
You’re actually claiming Jeffreys isn’t transphobic? How the fuck do you figure?
jose says
Because I have read her book on the matter.
Happiestsadist, opener of the Crack of Doom says
Then you agree that “”transsexualism should be seen as a violation of human rights.” ? That GRS should be banned? That gender identity is up for debate? That trans women are not women?
jose says
No, and I don’t think all sex is rape, either.
Happiestsadist, opener of the Crack of Doom says
… Nice nonsequitur. How exactly are the above statements by Jeffreys not transphobic, though?
Ms. Daisy Cutter, General Manager for the Cleveland Steamers says
Jose: Sheila Jeffreys isn’t transphobic? Bull. Fucking. Shit. Why don’t you actually ask an actual trans* person? You know, like Autumn Sandeen?
Oh, and I’d love to see your citations on who misogynists “hate the most.” This isn’t Oppression Olympics, and being on one axis of oppression doesn’t automatically give a person empathy for people on another axis.
Ms. Daisy Cutter, General Manager for the Cleveland Steamers says
Am I in moderation? Because I just left Jose a comment linking to both RationalWiki and to a post on Pam’s House Blend by a trans* activist disputing his claim that Jeffreys is not transphobic.
Ophelia Benson says
Nope. Maybe links.. I’ll check the spam filter.
Ophelia Benson says
There it is. Went into spam instead of hold. Wrong; bad filter; no cookie.
Ms. Daisy Cutter, General Manager for the Cleveland Steamers says
Thanks, Ophelia.
jose says
Why are you linking me a wiki article as if I don’t know anything about her? I said I have read her book on the issue and there is more information there about what Sheila Jeffrey thinks than in some wiki. You should read it too.
And the other link is just some people who don’t want her at some conference. It happens a lot. What has that got to do with anything? Anyway, an excerpt… “encourage clients to take a more political approach to their situation and to realize that they can rebel against the constraints of a prescribed gender role, and relate to their own sex in their native bodies. “. Sounds like feminism to me. Full of good things.
Happiestsadist, opener of the Crack of Doom says
Thans for mansplaining feminism, Jose. And no, the fact that she’s too dumb to tell gender roles, sex and gender identity apart does not “sound like feminism” to anyone who isn’t a TERF. She literally claims trans people are doing violence by existing.
Hey Ophelia, you know how I was mentioning good reasons why transfeminists stay the hell away from much of the mainstream rich white cis lady feminism? Assholes like this, and the fact that they usually do undisputed.
Ms. Daisy Cutter, General Manager for the Cleveland Steamers says
Jose, like Happiestsadist said, you do not get to tell trans* people what’s transphobic and what isn’t. You also don’t get to mansplain feminism to women (or female-assigned genderqueer folks like HS, for that matter).
Seriously. Transfeminists don’t want to see their identities and lives up for debate among cis women any more than women in general want to see ours up for debate among men.
jose says
That you don’t want the affirmation of gender stereotypes up for debate is abundantly clear. Since I don’t get tell or do anything anymore, that will be all from this end.
Martha says
Loved this!
Sarah Noble says
The supposed affirmation of gender stereotypes by trans people is the fault of the patriarchy, not the fault of trans women.
Happiestsadist, opener of the Crack of Doom says
Quite right, Sarah.
But then, Jose can’t tell the difference between gender and gender roles, so.